StoryTime: How My Mother In-law Ruined My Mother's Funeral For Me
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StoryTime: How My Mother In-law Ruined My Mother's Funeral For Me
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Facts!! I left my husband for similar reasons, if you can't protect me from your family, I'm out!!! Period!!!!
This is a lesson for a lot of us young ladies to not ignore red flags I am sorry you went through this ninja
She sounds dramatic like my former mother in-law 😂. I now actually laugh at myself at the things I used to tolerate for the sake of love. Thank you for inspiring me to tell my story Owamie ❤️
Your marriage was literally doomed from that first moment she saw ur family home.. So many red flags Owami.. That woman was so jealous, she could not even hide it omg... My heart breaks for you..
Pure jealousy. She thought Vendas were poor and she was surprised when she saw Owami's home. What an evil woman.
The nose ring sis , u re more beautiful without it just my opinion
Yes, it's true, she is more beautiful without the ring nose
I love her just the way she is 🥰! So unique and original 👍
But it’s her choice what to do…your opinions are unsolicited
Yes very true. She looks beautiful workout the nose ring.
Iam also routing nwana mhani u way pretty without a ring ninja...
I can only imagine loosing a mother, I don't even want to think of a day when my mother is not there , I am praying everyday that the lord keeps her.
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Same here 😭
Keep the story times coming we are learning a lot from you
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Imagine at age 21 organising your mother’s funeral. I can’t even fathom the thought 💔.
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It’s the worst💔I planned my mother’s funeral this year Jan, less than 20days before my 21st birthday💔 But life has no manual hey, I had to be strong for my younger brother
@@sihlesibiya1811 💔Yoh uxolo Sis, I can’t even find the words to comfort you. 🙏🏾Thank you for sharing part of your life and grief with us, hopefully it helps with healing
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@@sihlesibiya1811 so sorry for your loss ❤️🩹
Obviously there was a lot of red flags even before the marriage started, you a strong independent, sexy woman, oozing confidence, which is very attractive and the way you carry yourself speaks for it self, I am glad you in a better space now and free from that terrible monster in-law. God bless you always!!!!
Owami cry when you have to cry please, don’t hold back those tears mam
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Yes. That's where you release and find healing. Crying it's part of human emotions. Allow yourself to feel it
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Wow I'm so shocked Owamie. It does really seemed you were blinded by love. I remember how you used to say you are in a happy marriage every time you spoke about your husband. I'm happy your eyes were finally opened. It seems like that statement was far from truth.
Nose ring must go👇
He was definitely a covert narcissist. Manipulating people by playing victim. I'm so sorry you went through this. But you have come out victorious in the end!
Yes. Covert narcissist.
Glad someone sees it too.
We really should be careful when we choose partners...its all about how people are raised... disrespect should not be tolerated at all.
It's funny how when you look back you can actually hear the red flags were there from the beginning 🤣🤣 Woman you've👏 been👏 carrying👏 that👏 relationship 👏on your back from the word go👀
Every time you mention your mom in law.. I have more reason to believe that she’s not a good person
Even the time Owami reached 100k Mr B wasn't happy but we thought he's like that he can't show emotions kanti nope it was one the red flags 🥴🚩
I remember sh'honey! They were even Live that day and we were doing a count down at 99.9k
Yes and he wasn't happy maarn
Há I was watching that recently and you're absolutely right 😂🙄🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴
u can say that again
Hey I saw that as well shiuuu that guy hes evil shame and the time they went out for shopping this guy will be like mmmmmm
Reminds me when Gab Union said "the woman I am today would've left....", it really acknowledges that I was young, I didn't know better and I forgive myself.
For me the lesson to be learned here is, as future mothers in law, lets do better.
amen
Eya hlena
I'm so glad you're out of that family. Who goes off at a person who lost their mom like that bruh 💔💔
I think your mother in law came to the funeral just to check and dig she wasn't actually there to support you. And I believe that all the power she got to do and say all those things was from her son
She’s one of those moms whose toxic behavior curse their sons. He’ll never find peace in any relationship- she’s ruined him
Your father sounds like an amazing man
Not really but he tries 😂😂😂
He's a pathological liar and loves sympathy. His mom was clearly very insecure and intimidated by the family you come from, and felt you were better than them. And there's absolutely nothing you can do about that, its their problem. Thank you for the story time, learnt a lot. You have beautiful future ahead of you, God hasn't even started to bless you yet, its only about to start. Certain people who are not for you had to leave your life before God opens up the flood gates of heaven over you.
Amen.
Mara wena o nkwiša bohloko Owamie. Wa bona this thing of “bhekezeling” will kill most women ka gare. Keep educating us mamas❤️
Seeing you cry made me realize that past traumas are real. Bear 🐻 hugs cc.
It’s his mom and him that disliked this video
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Never help out a man financially or go 50/50 a man must build himself and pay for everything . This guy was a scammer from the start he is a feminine man raised by horrible people .The red flags where there from the start 💔 some pain just aint worth it but what I love about God is he has this way of bringing a Rainbow and sunshine after a flood and storm. Look at you now❤
Owamie babe, your in-laws are not your family. You are such a strong, beautiful and wise woman. Don't regret your experiences in life.
I’m so inspired by how you fearlessly share your stories 🥲
Same!
@@LethoHali Me too!!
I'm at work and I'm tearing up so much. Owamie sisi, may your mom's soul continue to rest in peace 💔💔💔
The stud ring will look stunning on you. That 1 is a bit much ❤
You were married to a narcissist... I'm glad you got out of this relationship. I don't support divorce but it's shocking the levels of toxicity you endured. He wasted your twenties.
He didn’t stand up for you because he was happy there was someone else emotionally abusing you besides him
You loved your husband so much Owamie. I even recall the one video you did with Thato Fox a while ago and you could just tell how much you loved your husband.
Owamie ♥️. I can see you're hurting, I wish you all the healing there is in life. Please also forgive yourself for feeling like you neglected your mom's kids to accommodate your other family, it happens. I'm so sorry.
One would question your capability you're such a strong woman and you've been through so much, yet you come out strong and God keeps on blessings. Ninja nation ✍️☕❤️
He feels compelled to lie or he's a pathological liar.
I am genuinely proud of you that you left that family. They were threatened by your strength and success . choose you wena girl
This is honestly terrifying OMG! You're so strong for making it out of the relationship successfully and built up our life again. You speaking out really helps women to pick up little red flags in their relationships
All those 26 dislikes are the ex-in-laws! Thank you for watching by the way!
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@@nmathidi1251 🤣🤣crazy
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Thank you for sharing the good, the bad and the ugly. It means you are healing hence you are able to share this now.
Her behavior was such a red flag but think because of all the emotions you were already going through and being that young you didn’t think too much into it. What mother can’t empathize your loss of your mother and just makes it worse
Where I'm at right now, I'm frowning and screaming Tjeses... Such disrespect family, Owamie even thou divorce is sad, I'm kind of glad you left that family.... Demet
Lost my mom when I was 16, I hadn't even had my periods yet and we hadn't even had the adolescent talks. It still hurts, its ok to cry every now and then, you feel better afterwards
Askies ❤
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Oh baby askies 💓💓💓
@@LihleM1 it's ok hun. ♥️
Unfortunately my husband who was my boyfriend at the time lost his mother in 2013 and father in 2014 so I've never experienced the pain you've gone through ninja, however his sister did try to bully me into doing wifely duties while I was still a girlfriend, also after he paid lobola she tried to bully me and was extremely jealous of the fact that her brother paid lobola for me BUT I thank God that I have a strong husband who stood up for me and stopped that ish before it began, he made it clear that if she came after me she would lose him and he wouldn't have anything to do with her.
This is honestly so painful 😭😭😭. Old wounds always hurt most
He is a Pathological liar and that's on period 😮
He really is.
May your mommy continuing resting in peace. ❤️🙏🙏
Bless you. My ex mum inlaw woke up took upon herself to apologize even before mum passed and she is now my mother. Only because of where I come from (family)and is abroad plus I'm the only one to give her a grandchild. Karma
Owami congratulations on your journey of healing and finally getting the peace you deserve. It is only through retelling your the past events do you get the picture of how bad the situation was and that in itself is healing because you are finally seeing the situation for what it it was. I am currently going through therapy after my divorce and the more i listen to myself reiterate the events in my marriage to my therapist the more it gets to me how much nonsense i took from him and those light-bulb moments fuel me with so much strength and makes me feel empowered for having made the decision to leave his sorry ass. Please cry as much as you want because the tears are an indication for the pain you've held on to and the letting them out are you releasing that pain. He was clearly a pathological liar and a covert narcissist. Love and light to you my beautiful angel...Namaste'
Every time she speaks of her late mom personally I fell it yoooo Owamie mummy sees what u went through and what u are going through She will be right beside you while she is right beside God pleading to God to protect and make things happen for you
You are indeed Mrs fearfokol😞❤️You Went through alot, at ths point I don't think there is a thing that will be able to break you🙌
My mother was going through divorce. Everything you are talking about is what she went through What i noticed was Let a man be a man, do not allow yourself as a women to play a role of a man. A man should and must be able to provide for his family without the help of his women. Of course i am not trying to say that a women should not work or contribute to her own house buuuut it should not be the first option. Men who are provided for by women will take your money to another woman who is less then him to act like he is a provider to her. Here are red flags i pictured up from my mother and this video. 1) earns less than you and is living a life style that he can not afford 2) tells you stories about how everyone around him is soo bad to him but never sees his own flaws. 3) lies about very stupid shit 4)hides money 5) has an on and off relationship with his family 6)allows his mother to disrespect you 7) DOES NOT COMMUNICATION Let me be clear just because he does not have money now does not mean he wont in the future. A man with a plan and ambitious is powerful man compared to a man with millions with no plan or ambitious. DO NOT GET MARRIED TO A MAN WHO IS NOT FINANCIALLY OR EMOTIONALLY READY.
This is standard behaviour of EVERY scrub mtase 🙌🏾 you should write a book to alert women. This is sooo true
This🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 can I like a million times?? What’s your Facebook or Instagram handle sesi??? I wanna follow you
@@abiingrid5483 awww babes. lol I have a youtube channel and I'm really considering talking about these things but right now my channel has nothing. though you are really motivating me to talk about things like this.
Yohhh babes. I think the one thing i am good at is observing people and the one thing i have noticed is that we have been fool that women should act like men
@@divhinets7007 please post ooo and educate us, we want this content
He was on a serious smear campaign.
Owamie please let tears roll out freely girl....cause this is therapeutic will help you to heal dear.
She must cryyyyy😓😓😓😓crying heal
Owamie I absolutely believe you. People who constantly have a victim mentality 🚩🚩. I'm so happy that you're divorcing and moving on from him and his family.
Being in a relationship with a mama's boy is tiring and draining. You constantly have to defend yourself because "indoda" yakho just watches when you are constantly being disrespected by his family.
And every little argument you have best believe the mother will know about it 😭yho I'm never dating a mamas boy again I know the frustration shame
@@nqobilendebele4100 I know exactly what you mean. I got tired of even apologizing when I knew I was not wrong, I basically got tired of being a "better person / for peace sake". My story is too deep, we were struggling to conceive and I was told "isibongo siyaphela" because he was the only son in that family 😂🤣. Things that we go through emizini yabantu.
@@noluthandomasondo and they always put the blame on us women they never ask if the problem could be the man
Wish l had a brother to marry this grazy, genuine Gem of a woman💖💖💖
Owamie you've been through a lot babe please go for therapy, find your healing and start over on a clean slate.✨✨✨
Oh my gosh Owamie, you went through so so much. I feel that he just did not try to defend you at all. Worse because he went and badmouthed you to his family. He honestly needs to let you go live your life in peace by signing the papers..it's enough now. Saying you cheated on him? Wow what a mess 😳
A rotten man that you have.🤔😲😞😔
Don’t cry wena Ninja abo stress are no longer with you….just thank God that you are no longer with them….they were the worst people who can’t even pretend during the time of your loss when you needed words of comfort the most, stay blessed dear God has a plan for you🌹
Ladies - help me understand. Kante why are mothers-in-law such cows to their daughters-in-law?
Lesego no one knows why they are so cruel.
I would like to know mine never even hide it from me she told me straight up in my face she gets bored wen she sees me. I hv two boys and I will not mistreat their wives or meddle in their business cause wow it hurts, it cuts deep
Some of them it's the way they were treated by their own mother in laws like its sad how they've normalized being cruel as a mother in law. But also some of these women are entitled to their sons, especially their success and feel like their sons should love and spoil them. Most of these have never received the love they would have wanted from their husbands so their love came from their sons so seeing that love diverted to someone else hurts THEM. That's why most women say my first live is my son when they have a baby boy
Most of them think u are there to take away their son away from them. That's why d jealousy n hate.
@@tshiamomahape292 yohhh 😂😂😂😂 and that's an adult telling you such... Haai man
Oh Owamie, that family didn’t deserve you… 🥺 even in the midst of your pain you remained selfless. Also why did they come with you to the morgue?!! Hayibo! Mr B hit the jackpot with you. HE DID NOT DESERVE YOU! How dare they do that… I’m so mad!
Stay strong Owamie. Such is life, Doors of blessings are opening for you Owamie.
the mother is a Redflag , a red billboard actually !
Lord one can see the pain through your eyes🥺 strongs love❤
Thank you Ninja for sharing your story and opening our eyes as young women. You are really making a huge impact❤. I pray God sees you through this hectic time.
That emotional blackmail that we say we love you you but we don't follow you😂😂😂😂😂😂bathong ninja Okay let me go to all social media platforms and double check if I follow you
Please go and follow ❤️😛
You are a very strong ,you are better off without that zulu man, you are rising like the star that you are....may your mom s soul continue to rest in peace 🥰🥰💝💝
Owamie, your mom would have been so proud of you. You’ve grown so much, achieved so much too♥️ You are still to acquire more babes👌 Keep Shining
Sorry Owamie, his mom though 😂😂😂 I need to see your home now ninja
You are a Queen sis. We learn and grow. Sending you a warm hug and kisses. Stay strong my love
Clearly we see now where the son gets his acting skills,uQhwirhi shem lamfaz ndiyamoyika
Very qhwigarish... Maybe she was a wish vele
Mr B and his family, same WhatsApp group with money heist they pulled a hiest on you 🤣🤣
The way you speak setswana words so well.. I’m always in awe😍😍 Keep shining Owami, the fact that you racked up courage to leave just shows you are strong. Look at you now, all that was holding you back hey
Thank you for sharing sis ❤,especially the part about mothers in law assuming its their son who does everything. You are strong 😘
Love you Owamie, you motivated me in a way that I'm no longer shy to tell my story... keep pushing dear
IM JUST GLAD THAT U ARE OVER THAT CHAPTER OF YOUR LIFE DEAR ,, NOW GO ON AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE
Thank you For sharing your story I learned alot from it there is definitely something to take out of it!
The Hlongwanes that I know most of them their hearts are something else zicininile maaaan inhliziyo zabo 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞
I'm sorry you had to go through all of that ninja. I hope you fully heal from everything. Sending you love and light!🤗❤
Yhoooo! Owamie you have been through a lot 💔😭 sending you so much love and light ♥️
Love from Uganda, I love how you put on your beautiful brave woman Boots on and started to kick life in the butt.
I'll create a Twitter account just to follow you😘
Lots of love ninja I’m grateful for these type of stories and you boldly sharing ❤️💕❤️💕❤️ Yoh we go through a lot as women and yes this notion of lying for our spouses that “ he takes care of everything “ should stop its not helping anyone but weak and useless grown small boys.
Really want to give you a hug!! Beautiful woman you deserve so much more !X
Please don't forget to mention the underscore on your social handles and I can see you on the mirror behind you
Your a strong woman very beautiful ❤️ God will bless u in ways u couldn’t even imagine
4the record my granny was the best mom in law my aunt used to say , n her colleagues would be suprised , n she showed her appreciation .This one on the other hand just had a bad spirit
Owamie you're such a strong woman hey, Thats alot 😪
Owamie girl am glad u left that family,bravo girl love your honesty,and telling the truth.u are at the better place trust me❤️
galllllll uve carried this relationship from the word go ...glad you unloaded the baggage tjerrrr
🤗🤗you are such a good story teller no matter the story. I could listen to you even if its 3 hours
Yoh this video is so touching koda it has its moments yabo when Owamie tries to say pathological liar and than the part where she mimics mother inlaws dramatic cry 😂 i couldnt hold back my laughter 😆
Same here 🤣🤣😂😂😂
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Owamie mina personally I love you so much ❤️❤️ If I happen to bump into you, I'm giving you a big hug!!! You're one of the most amazing, strong and confident people I've ever seen❤️❤️
You honestly went through a lot with that family Owamie yho you deserve the soft life now 😭
Now it makes sense why your ex is the way he is. Insecurities passed down from parent to child.. The mom and the son projected their own inferiority complexes on you. Thank God you left that toxic life behind. Askies you had to go through this. Better is coming your way.
This takes me back to my mom funeral😭
I'm so happy that you are in a better space. 💕💕💕💕