3-year-old finds out her mom was adopted ❤️
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A family's security camera has captured the wholesome moment a three-year-old girl comforted her mom when she found out her mother was adopted. In the sweet footage, Ella Fauver, aged three, can be seen chatting to her mom, Emily, 30, in their Warrensburg, Missouri, home, when Ella asks Emily who her mom is. At that point, Emily breaks the news to her daughter that she was adopted, explaining, "because my mommy didn't want me." Ella, noticing the sadness in her mom's voice, replies, "Aww," before affirming, "I want you." The response overwhelmed Emily, who then got down to her daughter's level and gave her a big hug. According to Emily, she was taken from her biological parents when she was one and a half years old because her parents struggled with addiction. After being placed in three different foster homes, Emily was then adopted at the age of eight. She knew that one day she would have to explain her family dynamic to her daughter, but Emily did not expect that moment to come when Ella was so young - or with such a loving response.
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I think we just watched someone’s inner child be healed right in front of us.
facts
@@imsoonorcal Don't take what the child did away. It was the child who said so it was the child that healed the mom. Done.
Amen 🙏🏼
@@dovion they said what they said. Deal with it.
well said
That little girl said something her mom desperately needed. She doesn't even realize the impact her words made.
This. She WANTED to hear this all her life. When the kid said she wants her, you could see her going through raw emotions from her face, god bless her kid ❤
@@AB-ce3nn the little girl was so sweet, even i teared up
@A B you can even hear the mother crying in the background while recording this video so heartwarming
As someone who was adopted from another country and never met my birth parents or know anything about them, I felt this!❤
That made me cry 😭
The difference one generation can make. That little girl couldn’t fathom being abandoned like her momma. That’s generational redemption right there
I’m not crying your crying
Putting someone up for adoption is not abandonment.
@@Emma88178Abandonment: An act of leaving a person or thing permanently and completely. I don’t want to argue with you, but technicallyyyyyy yes it is
@@willownash8664I think they meant that it could've been a lot worse. She could've sold her to some nasty people or the black market or abandoned her somewhere. I'm not defending the act itself though. It is still abandonment, just that maybe that's what the comment meant?
@@pinecone4610no I’m not you are 😢
That hug just cured a lifetime of emotional baggage! Beautiful
I almost wanted to tear up myself, that moment was just so heartfelt ❤️
The moment she said "my mommy didn't want me" you could see the toddler try to process what she heard. Instant empathy and understanding.
Ye 🗿
*nonchalantly bites banana*
Yessss.💛 High EQ
@@shaymay2892you’re a little confused but you got the spirit
@@SCP-682_Keter😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"I want you" I felt that, that child is healer
Yep she sure is
Jesus loves you ❤❤
Believe me, human beings do not create or heal themselves. Only God can orchestrate what happened in this video.
This is the funniest thing I read all week thanks sis@@childofgod269
@@childofgod269 Keep thy religion to thyself.
You can tell she needed to hear that
Totally ❤
Even if it only came out of a toddlers mouth, she knew that she meant it ❤
I think that one sentence “I want you Mommy” healed a lot in her heart. I know it would have for me.
No like I would break down in tears fr 😭
Someday i'll have a little baby maybe she'll want me too
And it started a toxic relationship between mother and child, and personalityissues for that child. Fix issues in therapy, a 3 year old child should not be a source of validation for a grown woman.
Her heart was healed right before us
@@sandradube4456idk bro sounds like you’re projecting
Her level of empathy is huge. What a sweet child.
She is a product of her environment, and reflects how her parents treat her. ❤️
She truly is!! She touched my heart 🥺
Calm down she’s like 2
@@artenman I'm sorry you are hurting, but nature and nurture go a long way in creating beautiful children and people
@artenman I'm sorry your childhood was bad, mine was pretty horrible too. It shows in your comment. You don't have to be that way you know? You can change
She waited her entire life to hear those words from someone who genuinely meant it. And it was her kid. God bless them.
uhm she had an adoptive mother. You know those mothers are mothers who genuinely love their child dont you?ultimately and ironically it also proven by this video that is easier than what ppl think that adoptive parents may actually love their children more than two womb/scrotum parents.
Exactly what Barcelona said, why you do dismiss and disregard her adoptive mother she obviously said her mommy choose her instead how you you be so close minded? God doesn't like closemindes blind ppl
God made you. 😂😇😘
@@imsoonorcalWhich god tho?
@@barcelonanova6789 i love how you have the urge to complain on a wholesome video 💀
The way that little girl struggled to comprehend how a Mommy could not want her baby just shows how she's always felt wanted by her own Mommy. Bless them.
props to this woman for being open and honest (but gentle) with her kid about heavy topics, that's how you raise emotionally mature and compassionate childen
i do wonder if her adoption was a closed adoption. My twin cousins are adopted and their mother was victim of a rape & got pregnant with both of them. She didnt want to have an abortion but she also wasnt ready to be a mom (she was barely 15). So she gave both of them up to a couple (my aunt & uncle) that wanted both of them. Its not that they werent wanted, its their mom wanted them to have better than she could give them. they did eventually meet her once they were of age & they still have contact; but they still call my aunt & uncle, mom & dad and their biological mom by her name. I wasnt there at visits, but i do remember them saying that she cried a lot seeing that they were okay; that it was the hardest thing she'd ever done to let them go. But she knew she made best choice after seeing how well they turned out. One is a nurse and another is in school to be speech therapist
I just wish she’d said “my mommy couldn’t take care of me” or something. I understand the honesty, but a 3 year old hears that, and they wonder what they could do to make mommy not want them. Or another kid tells them they’re adopted, and they innocently ask the kid why didn’t you mommy want you?
@@SinginginDyeah, I kinda see that and "that's exactly why I had you" as red flags, tbh. You shouldn't have a child just to fill some kinda hole in yourself or to fix your life. It doesn't work and that's a LOT to put on a child. They're a brand new, vulnerable person - their existence shouldn't be about your trauma & that's likely to backlash on the kid's own psyche. Not to mention affect and possibly damage their relationship when the child grows up.
@@heoniebee9566 exactly. I do believe we need to be gentle with parents, especially those of us who have survived trauma. And I think it’s also important to see where we can tweak our loving parenting to do the best we can for our own babies!
@SinginginD couldn't agree more! I see alot off people applauding her "honesty". As a clinical psychologist I cringed when she said that. It's quite toxic. It's too much to burden a 3 year old with. That's a conversation she should have with her friends, partner and a therapist and get validation from those relationships. Validation from a 3 year old?? nah!
‘’I want you’’ that really melted my heart, bless her little soul. 🥺🥺
🙏🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰♥️♥️♥️😄😁
Me tooooooo!
Me too.
Me too.
I’m not crying … you’re crying
I like the parents who talk to their kids normally and dont dismiss/deflect their questions.
Yeah but I love parents who don’t trauma dump and unload emotional baggage onto their children even more 😊
@@Pink_pr1ncess in this particular case she didn't traumatised her
@@Pink_pr1ncess she wasn't trauma dumping?? It was literally just an explanation If she was trauma dumping she would say how horrible it was for her mother to left her and how she was hurt and how it affected her whole life Literally stop using buzzwords
Samesies
@@Asiya__Devorak she could’ve easily said “some people don’t have mommies and that’s okay” instead of saying “mommy didn’t want me waa”. That was so unnecessary
The little girl saying what her mom waited her whole life to hear, just precious
I'm pretty sure she already heard it, considering her adoptive mother adopted her, lol. I'm adopted, and I never felt bad about my biological mom giving me up because my adoptive parents always made me feel wanted by them. Not every adoptee is heartbroken that they we've been given up. We're curious about where we come from, but we're not all broken and sad about our biological family not wanting us if we grew up in a loving adoptive home.
@@skyegroome223hear, hear! ❤
you can see how grateful the mom was to have a daughter like her. beautiful moment❤
"I want you.." Damn, that hit me like a truck.
I swear kids have this natural tendency to know exactly what needs to be said, or exactly what someone needs to hear.
Yep, I definitely cried.
@@rs-mt6klin my country we say "Truth is spoken through the lips of the child"
I'm so emotional these days 😭😭😭😭😭That was sweet and heart felt
Yep I’m in tears 😢❤
Child: "I want you" Mom: *Cries in inner peace and happines* Dog: CaN i hAVe BaNnANa?
😂😂😂perfectly said 👌
🤣😂🤣
i read the dog voice with scoobidoo voice
Yes! 🤣
I thought the same thing haha
Being a mom really is the greatest gift. Children are healers 🥹
As a father and a son I can tell you y'all are indestructible, and indespensable.
Yes they truly are!! 🥰🥰🥰
This comment right here needs to be in bold and shouted .. so true !!!
Uh....children are very hard work to raise right. If you need healing, you might not be in the right situation to raise a child. It could easily make you worse and also ruin a whole other person.
@@FFKonoko personally, I don’t think it’s that hard. It’s not easy by any means but the rewards and joy far exceed the cons. The hardest part is becoming more selfless but it becomes natural. I can see people being miserable if they aren’t willing to sacrifice. The kid will have to come first. They can really bring out the best in you.
That’s beautiful. I love working with kids. I never know what they will say. About a month ago, one of the kids in the after school program I work in told me I was their favorite teacher, and that’s why she was always following me around. ❤❤❤
Its not easy being a teacher. Im glad u have the patience to do it. God bless u. U are a guide to the future.
I'm 23 and still in contact with my favorite teacher. SHe taught forensic science and is about to come to the baby shower for my first child this month ❤
@@kendricwoods6372Thank you so much! That means a lot. It’s often a thankless profession.
That's why, every child deserves parents but not every parent deserve kids
Wow so true
@@lanestratarots I COMPLETELY and HONESTLY respect a person like you who is willing to admit that they're not ready to be a parent yet and will take the proper measures to prevent it instead of being an irresponsible parent. My aunt never wanted kids and never had them. She admits she's too selfish for children. She loves her independence. All of us (her nieces and nephews) are her babies. According to her, she can spoil the hell out of us and take us back home... Until next time 😄!!
@@lanestratarots that's soo me, good to know i am not the only one who think like this. I too want to whole heartedly be with my partner but not yet ready for conceiving. People might say that i am being selfish, but you know it's not the people who is going to take responsibilty or take care of that child, that's why i don't pay heed to them.
What does a mom do when she has an unexpected pregnancy and feel like she can’t take care of them? Everyone is saying no to abortion, put your kids up for adoption so they can have a chance at a better life! Which is it? Ik not getting pregnant is the best choice… but then why is everyone for hook up culture??? The pressure is too much.
Never a truer quote said 👏 bless you 💞💌🧚
Most people don't realise that children understand everything. They are innocent but not dumb.
lots of them have the intuition, they just don’t have the right words or experiences yet
They also have very short attention spans the younger you get, probably size/time perception ratio
Some say we are born evil, but not all of us.
You know maybe we're not so evil after all. Yeah all of us have some tendencies to enjoy misfortune of others but at the same time we are all predisposed to trust each other by nature.
They become dumb soon enough
That little girl just gave her mom all the closure she’s been looking for all her life with just 3 little words 🙏💯
The little girl healed the the woman's inner child ❤🤌🫀
“I want you. Your mummy was lame” so fucking cute
“Your mommy was lame.” 😂😂😂🥰 i love this child!
😂😂 I heard that
Maybe her mother was someone who couldn’t care for her. She could’ve aborted her, but didn’t. And gave her to a loving home instead
@@sourgummiez i dont think its that deep… just enjoy this little girl loving her mommy so so much.
@@sourgummiez Yeah, no judgements to anyone. Its just the kid is so cute.
That's exactly what her inner child needed to hear 💜
Well said ☺️
@nicole st. denis - NO, That’s Exactly, What She Needed too Hear.
@@glorybelieve9010 our inner child is poisonned by our deepest traumas
She just passed a lil of the trauma to her child. Speaking from experience. She’s to young for the way she told her.
Exactly 💯😊
Being a woman who has gone thru similar, nothing I repeat nothing, has healed me more than giving my son the love I didn’t get ❤️
I love your reply, its fantastic to hear that that you healed yourself through giving your son the love you didn't get. What's disturbing to me about this video, is that the mother appears to be saying that she had the child so that the child could want her.
As someone who has given a baby up for adoption, please don’t assume the mom “didn’t want the baby”. I won’t speak for this woman’s experience because she may know things I don’t, but I know for me, I desperately wanted that baby. I fell in love with him the moment he was born just like I did all the children I had later in life. I felt a hole in my soul when I left without him, when I didn’t bring him home with me. When I say I cried for over a year straight, I’m not exaggerating. But I was also 15. I couldn’t give him the life he deserved. I got to pick his new family and they are the most amazing parents still to this day (open adoption is a blessing), I got to see him grow up and all the opportunities he got that I could never have given him. I cried every time I left, because I loved him, and yes I was happy for him and his parents who absolutely adored and wanted him, but I wanted him too and it hurt my soul that I felt I lost him over and over again. Those who say “if you didn’t want a child, you should have aborted,” are not seeing the full picture. Abortions are a choice, birth is a choice, adoption is a choice. We want people to have choices because one option doesn’t work for everyone all the time in all situations.
@@MrSelwyn6go away, miserable troll
@@MrSelwyn6 turning off your wifi and going back to the asylum you escaped of, is a choice.
Not all birth parents try to reach out to their children. It’s great that you are, but sometimes parents just leave their kids on the porch of the orphanage with no name, birthday, or anything. … … … Yes, I’m talking about myself
@@watermelongum9298 😮 damn.
@@watermelongum9298 But that doesn't mean it was an easy decision. And that doesn't mean she doesn't care about you. It could be that that was the only option she felt she had.
A parent who talks to their little child like a regular human being. I love it.
They're children. You shouldn't treat them as though they're stupid, and you should help them learn by staying at a level that's graspable with effort. Here, as sweet as it is to hear her daughter say she wants her, this toddler was just introduced to the developmentally-inappropriate concept that some mommies don't want their children and give them away instead. This is the sort of thing that, the night after the next time you discipline them, you'll be walking out of their room after putting them to bed and hear, "Are you going to give me away to a different mommy?" (You're also liable to hear them ask a peer they discover is adopted why their mommy didn't want them.) A _lot_ of parents have seen this after (innocently) telling their children something like, "Don't worry. It didn't hurt. Grandpa just fell asleep and never woke up." Days later, as their child is falling asleep at the table (again), they ask why they're so sleepy and find out that their child has been scared to fall asleep at night, "In case I don't wake up, like Grandpa!"
@@jacksyoutubechannel4045It’s all a part of life. Don’t shelter your kids emotionally..if you don’t introduce these things to your child, someone else will.
@@marcuswest1318Very Bad It's the age when she is getting to know about Love, about family and especially her Mother and then BOOM Mothers can be like Monsters too, they can even abandone their child She will think that maybe a Mother's Love is Not pure and unconditional always like I thought She will even go further about what is it that caused Mother to be abandoned I should already knew so that I won't get abandoned too, she will be careful to not do things so that her Mother won't leave her too
They're not regular human beings. They're easy to manipulate and don't know how to process big emotions. People should be cautious about what they say to their children and how they say it for these reasons.
@@a.r.m.y.chinghu926 I’m not saying make your child watch cartel videos or anything here lol. Just talk to them like people and not like a dog dumbing down words all of the time. I have a 5 year old that does 200 piece puzzles by herself and picked up how to ride a bike with no training wheels within a week. She’s well aware of how to use certain words. They’re curious and sort of like a sponge when it comes to things said around them. So I’m not saying be brutally honest 24/7 but don’t shy away from telling them things when they ask about it. Doesn’t do them any good and if you don’t straighten out the answers to questions that they ask, they’ll find their answer somewhere else. Stop sending your little people out into the world blindfolded! Help them understand.
You know that whatever a kid is saying is just unfiltered and sincere, good and bad. So this hits extra hard. That's a good kid.
My girlfriend’s little sister told me that she was cheating on me 😅
@@marc3301pfffttttt that's hilarious.
@@marc3301 W sister lmao
Right. There’s no need to guess what they’re feeling. They’re honest, pure and never have any hidden malice. 🥹🥹 it’s normally the adults that suck
Relying on your kid for emotional support when it should be the other way around , I would never put my emotional burdens on my kid, especially a toddler lol
She really waited her entire life to hear that ❤❤❤
Man my eyes are sweating. That was so sweet
It's so impressive how a 3-year-old has such emotional intelligence.
It’s not emotional intelligence, she is just so innocent That she expresses her feelings in a pure and raw way, like a lot of 3 years old kids
@@GRAOUIA don’t underestimate the 3-year-old’s emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence is definitely mixed in with her innocence and big heart.
@@kepecos Seriously... Just stop.....
@@jimmyrodriguez5670 🤣🤣🤣🤣 lmao, ok I’ll stop. Jk I can say whatever TF I want. So can you. That’s the beauty of it all.
@@kepecos It's never beautiful when stupid people are proud of being stupid.
I cried when she said “I want you” ❤
Me too, instant tears.
Me 3
Me too
Same here...😢
Make me cry, never cries in 6 years but why things like this made me, i guess i just want to feel wanted in live and useful for someone
That child will one day grow up to understand how much that meant to her mama, but she will never understand how deep in the mothers soul it will be kept.
I saw this like a year ago and it was the sweetest. Seeing it again, having my own baby sleeping on my shoulder, this is extra sweet. Children are a gift.
I want you...... I knew she had tears to know that her own daughter accepts her. That makes me cry
John 3:16
It amazes me how a 3 year old can think of the perfect thing to say in that situation.
@@Bert_de_Wityeah iam amazed by that too most of the children at that age don't know about adoption
She's a toddler. She won't know what she was saying in two years time.
Now days girls wanna kill the only thing that will genuinely love love them and never officially leave
Welp, I’m crying. Children are so pure.
same here, it immediately brought tears to my eyes when she said it.
I’m just like that to my mom
Me too😢
Yep, immediate tears.❤️
you ppl cry bout every lil shit
The kid felt so sorry for her mom, her immediate reaction was to reassure mom, she’s wanted and loved.
I’m not crying, you’re crying.
I like how she's just having an honest adult conversation with her toddler.
it's something that should be normalized honestly obviously don't share what you think is too much on them but like having casual conversations like this genuinely build up a emotionally intelligent child
Don't do this with kids. It makes them weirdos and they can't relate to the other kids.
@@ClubQRoundDeuxSo making them a bit more intelligent makes them weirdos? Damn I should've never asked my family any questions when I was a child
@@RyH-yx4ys That isn't intelligence. That is making them more mature and adult than they should be at their age. Damn you didn't ask enough questions. You can't tell the difference.
@@ClubQRoundDeux You have zero comprehension of "emotional intelligence" huh
Being chosen and wanted by an adoptive family is 1,000x better than being stuck with parents who don't want you.
I can say from personal experience that's not true. You are better of with awful real parents than greedy strangers.
@@kiahmadison8541 not all adoptive parents are like that. If you see my comment. You should read it.
@@kiahmadison8541 thats why they said “being chosen and wanted”
@@kiahmadison8541The point flew right over your head.
@@theoryofpersonality1420 Brainwashing. That's all it is.If you support adoption you are supporting legally sanctioned kidnap, child trafficking and abuse. It's not kind. Wanted is subjective. It doesn't stop people who adopt children from showing them disrespect or using adoption to laud it over them when they want control. All adoptive parents say they love their 'kids'. Not really- there is no bond like with a biological child. Trying to deny that is stupid.
She was so confused at hearing her “my mommy didn’t want me” because she couldn’t process the idea of a mommy not wanting their child. Shows how loved the little girl is.
I'm in tears ❤ children can heal the soul 🥹
That was probably the sweetest thing Mom could hear.
Yes it is
For sure! Especially if it's true that she "wasn't wanted". That narrative is what many are lead or taught to believe is true, but often times it's not. Whatever the situation is, what a blessing they are to each other. It's a beautiful thing, and may it continue to grow & be blessed! 💕
more like the sweetest thing in the universe. ever
It sure is but I want to know how a 3 year old knows what "to be adopted" means 😳
I know, it was ABSOLUTELY perfect..got me crying over here 🥺
"I want you" that made me cry, and then "Your mommy was lame" made me laugh. Children will break(in a good way) and fix your heart at the same damn time.
Yea. Just like my boy. Just yesterday I was frustrated coz I can't get dinner right. So he came over and gave me a hug. I said "I didn't do a good job. I'm sad." My son replied "I love what you did. I love your food." ❤️ He fixed me in many other ways. I'm grateful I have a little man who loves me unconditionally.
@@mizhomesiq look up “parentification”. It’s not your child’s job to heal your trauma.
@@ShoyuRamenBreakingBad I didn't give him a job. He willingly gave his attention to me. So good if you can heal yourself on your own. I am not perfect like you to understand what parentification is. Good for your kids (if u had one) too to have a perfect parent like you. 👏 👏 👏
@@mizhomesiq he “willingly gave his attention” to you, because you put the subject + your emotions upon him. I’m definitely not a perfect parent, but I also know that if I’m struggling with something, it’s to be discussed with an adult. Not a toddler.
@@ShoyuRamenBreakingBad I'm proud that my boy has empathy and he's mature beyond his age to care about someone. Anyway good for you 👍that your kids are carefree without you burdening them. You can run along and have a good life. Goodbye.
I'm from tamil nadu, india and we have a saying in our culture, it goes, Children and God are one. God wanted to her to know that she was wanted and he let her know in the most beautiful way possible. It's when I see stuff like these and wish someone wanted me...
So beautiful!!!! My children have healed me in so many ways!!! I think they do choose us before coming to this earth ❤
Humans: "hearty conversation" Doggo: 🍌👀
Hahaha right ha
He was patiently waiting and got nothing 😭
@@FreyaFromAsgardhe did get a small piece tho
I came for this exact comment 😂
Lol I’m laughing so hard 🤣🤣🤣
I'm a grown ass man and I teared up on this one. As a father, I couldn't imagine my child not feeling wanted. I'm glad this mother found her peace through her daughter. It's a beautiful sight.
You seem like a pretty good dad. Not to assume you don't already do this but be sure to be affectionate to your kiddos and state clearly how much you love them and want them in your life. All of them. My dad was never that affectionate to my brother and only the daughters in the family, so now they dont have much of a relationship.
OMFG, why do men always have to specify that they’re GROWN? Literally no one cares. it’s ok to tear up. Damn.
@@doggoadexx2680 Nigga shut up 🤣
@@doggoadexx2680 right lol
@@doggoadexx2680 Blame the sexism that teaches them it's wrong.
"Thats exactly why i had you" emotional validation
I do appreciate that the mother calmly explained the situation to the young child and she reacted in empathy instead of the mom having a break down about it and the child reacting to those emotions. Very sweet.
If you trust children enough to be completely honest with them, they may tell you exactly what you didn’t know you needed to hear.
Big fact
Love this!
My biggest goal as a parent is for them to trust *me* with what they have to say. This mama is clearly succeeding at that, and it's beautiful to see. ❤️
can they do this with the stock market?
You protect children from negative energy and your own traumatizing experience!!!!! You don't tell a 5 yr old girl that!!!!
That child is highly intelligent. Asking questions non-stop until she got an answer that made sense to her. she already has the ability to sympathize and tell her mother that even if no one else wants her she does. Just Priceless.
average at best all kids to that, and it's annoying
@@Mhats you’re miserable
@@TheChickize stating facts is misery?
@@Mhats you’re kinda miserable yeah
@Mhats I bet your fun at partys🤡🤡🤡
That's why I love kids. So damn beautiful.
“I want you” 🥰 children are so raw and say the truth. And that right there is pure truth!
"I want you", the most precious thing our child can say when we feel most of the world rejected us.
Yes but watch out bc as they get older they start saying things like I don't want you, leave me alone, all the way to i hate you. And all the comments I saw here nurture those feelings that are gonna feel so much harder when they do the opposite. Just know that it's a part of development and do your best never to take it too personally. They don't know how it feels on the other end. Or maybe they do and are just trying to cause as much pain as they can. If you treat them with compassion but boundaries that demand respect, they will come around (or perhaps they need mental healthcare).
@Ruby-yn5fp Telling your parents that you hate them is not a stage of development, that says something about their parents.
@@Ruby-yn5fpso you are a terrible mother huh… what you type is not normal development at all!!!
@@shroomii3414 I definitely agree but it's not ALWAYS the parents fault. Some kids r js they way they r or its them being mentally hurt elsewhere. Or js the parents being too soft and letting things like that slide
A child's words can heal years of pain.
this is so true.
My goodness, isn't that the truth❤
They really can, I'm crying now.
That was wholesome
I love that she didn’t really sugar coat it for her daughter and I love it even more that her daughter immediately comforted mom 😭❤
When she said " I want you mommy" even melted my 41yrs old man heart
You’re human, you can cry
Me and you both bro pass the tissue!
You're human, you're allowed to cry. 💜 Regardless of your gender. 😊
@@mluna1898 thank you
@Bro. Tolliver facts bro 💯 🤧
Being adopted myself that "I want you" was the sweetest thing ever.
glad you found a home, the system sucks ass.
Same. Didn’t have the best adoption story (it’s kind of wild) but that little girl was so honest & it was beautiful.
Yeah I'm still waiting to hear those words 😅
Would you tell your 3 year old u dont have a momy because your momy didn't want you .. wheres foster momy . How does foster momy feel about your momy didn't want me shit .. hell shes probably in the next room helpin raise your baby .. because no one with half a brain or soul would say that to their 3 year old daughter if they loved them
@@whorable just because you’re adopted , doesn’t mean that you found a home
This family deserves the moon and back. At her age to being that empathetic and articulate speaks volume to the parenting. Incredible ❤
Kids are smarter than we think and they can handle the truth told truthfully. Not much can bring me to tears but this certainly has
She saved her years of therapy and money with that one comment. 😭😭😭❤❤❤
@cartoons I wasn’t saying her mom didn’t need to go to therapy, nor was my comment trying to turn her daughter into a burden bearer 😏. But sometimes loving words coming from a pure place can heal deep wounds in ways you can’t express. I’m a living witness of that. 🙏🏾❤️ God bless
@@TeeBaby82 😂😂😂 your statement was funny. That other person is a party pooper
@cartoons 😂😂😂 you must be fun at parties
@cartoons Blah blah blah
@@cartoons4042she just couldn’t think of a lie it’s not that deep lol
I’m adopted as well and my sons said “I’ll always want you forever”. It melted me
Of course you are wanted and loved. Your biological mother giving you up has absolutely nothing to do with your self worth. Idk her reasons, they could've been to give you a better life than she would be able to provide, emotionally and financially...or not. It hurts regardless, I understand that. But God gave you children that you obviously raised with lots of love. And you're reaping the rewards and they're worth more than money could ever buy. What awesome sons you have. :)
What about the people who adopted you. They wanted you too. But yes, it’s a huge thing to deal with if your biological parents never brought you up, for whatever reason.
Im adopted my real parents are the one who adopted i dont need or want any biological if you wefe adopted you were loved
Well of course they’d want you forever…. they’re your children? Gotta stop treating our kids like they’re our therapists. Plz.
@@ShoyuRamenBreakingBad treating my kids like a therapist because they said something nice to be about my adoption lol you’re the one who needs a therapist my friend.
Your daughter is the most amazing person I’ve ever seen. At her young age she understands empathy, compassion and grace. May God continue her blessings. Please give her a hug from a stranger in PA ❤
Such a simple yet sweet phrase, she absolutely needed to hear that 😭
A parent who talks to there kid like a normal human is a great parent
Except when it turns into trauma dumping
@@jackydegraaf3144 there are always exceptions, but I would’ve preferred this to the sheltered life my mom raised me in. She left me unprepared for how life works because she wasn’t honest with me.
@@jackydegraaf3144 Sure but the kid is directly asking and its not exactly age inappropriate
@@jackydegraaf3144 that wasn't trauma dumping.
@@xXxKaley2013xXx Same here, my dad was a single parent. He kept me sheltered so much that I believed that when a couple got married, they would move to a thatched house in the country with a beautiful garden brimming with flowers. I honestly believed that until I was 11! I'm very old now and my childhood seems so long ago, but it was a shock to go out into the big wide world! I was not the same bringing my children up, thank goodness. 🙂
Hearing a little child's voice say, "I want you." Tears!!! Immediately!!
My children don't want me. It's worse than death
@@recoveringsoul755The Lord bless you, soul . . .the Lord bless you. I don't know what to say to that, but I'll pray for you. If I knew you I'd give you a hug and lend you my ears.a
The 3 yr needs to be our moms
Aww that's so sweet and cute little girl❤❤❤
As a father of three who had parent's that didn't love him, this hit hard 😢
I feel for you bro don't worry that's their loss not yours brother. You take care of your own kids without their help means u don't need them anyways . Stay strong brother people don't really console men with these problems as much.
I wasn't adopted, but my father was.. And he was the greatest dad I could have ever asked for. I can't imagine what it must have felt like growing up without your biological family, but clips like this reminds me that we weren't all that lucky. Makes me want to call my dad.
❤❤❤❤❤ oh my god
And look at the magnificent man that you are!!! You are indeed a wonderful blessing! May God continue to bless you and your beautiful family!
Decirle a tu hijo tan pequeño que tus padres no te querían es un abuso, no le cuentes tus penurias hasta que sea más mayor
I love how she talks to her like a normal human being and not like some little pet just cuz she’s little. Kids are smarter and more mature than we let them on to be. That’s how you parent
One thousand percent agree
My friend makes fun of me for talking to her toddler "like an adult" but eventually she noticed that he's a lot more verbal and articulate around me...
I knew what we were doing was right when my niece, at 5 years old, corrected her uncle, that she never met before. He tried to demean her response for not automatically hugging him when he said he was her uncle. She replied " no, your a stranger. I don't know you." Yeah, I laughed all in his face, not ashamed either.
Thank you for saying this! I hateeeewee when people talk to their kids like they’re stupid pets or that they don’t understand 🙄 kids are humans and they are pretty smart
Exactly how I talk to my 5 year old. Now, he’s a great conversationalist
Emotionally intelligent little hunny baby. The empathy and sweetness for her mother……. Well done mommy. You broke the cycle. What a sweet sweet moment 😭😭😭😭
Oh what a sweet cupcake of a baby. She made me tear up. That was probably the healing that mama needed. Bless you little compassionate soul❤
Dude the way the mom just broke down from those words really shows how insane of an impact those words meant to her. Man.
if my child told me that i would literally burst into tears. the fact that your own child gave you consolation is so heartwarming.
I know lots of girls with moms who had them to fill a place of loneliness and neglect and trust me when I say their current relationships are not good. Because the child adopts a parental role and then when the kid inevitably rebels the parent literally cannot handle that rejection again and it ends badly. It was a cute moment but that baby girl just took on a lifetime of burden.
@@aforest1934 this is important too ^^^
"That's just the way- I was adopted, actually". That choice mid-sentence to choose vulnerability and truth led to a beautiful moment of healing.
Wow, the compassion that little girl has is amazing. You are doing a beautiful job raising her, that is very clear!
People say kids are dumb even at 3 she understood exactly what her mom said and had empathy for her.... she's so sweet
Those people are dumber than those kids.
I truly think we underestimate how smart these little ones are!
empathy is hardly linked to intellectual capabilities, it's mostly ingrained in us naturally
As a pediatric dentist I can tell you that kids a just short adults with big feelings. Esp when you factor in that most adults are stunted somewhere because of childhood traumas so they display the same emotional outbursts and temper tantrums when things don't go their way.
If you explain it plain and blunt instead of beating around the bush, they will understand just fine. Even with their brain still developing, 9 times out of 10 they will get it
my girl really said, “your mom was lame” woww that’s truly mother and daughter bonding!! ❤❤❤
what a golden heart
Maybe her bio Grandma wasn't lame at all. Maybe she had an abusive partner or family, was dirt poor, underage or drug addicted and giving her kid up was the best thing she could have done for her child.
@@iker8909or maybe she was just lame
@@Iqjaahbssbsjaj Not improbable.
I am so sorry but so grateful for your babygirl. You are wanted AND NEEDED in this world, Cherry!! Love and hugs from Puerto Rico!🇵🇷❤️💯🥰
If thats not the sweetest thing you can hear, God blessed you both.
I’m not crying , your crying 😭😭😭😭 what a sweet angel she is raising ♥️ speaks volumes about her as a mom♥️
As a man who was adopted. This hit me right in the gut.
😂
@@francisyanthan103wtf are you laughing at?
Me too. I was also adopted and this was deep
As another adopted person, same!
I was adopted as well, and this video had me crying
When I told my 8 year old child that my biological father left me, she put her hand on my arm and said “I’m so sorry” ♥️ I started crying. I had always needed that empathy.
That’s sympathy not empathy
@@lilkittygirl It can be a demonstration of both actually.
😢
@@lilkittygirl Sympathy would be "aw, that's so sad"
@@lilkittygirlcould be any of them or both, you don’t need to be through what another been through to feel empathy.
This broke my heart. Having not been wanted by my own mother, either, I now understand that my mother did not have the capability to be my mother. And it had nothing to do with me.
The way the child says I want you mommy, really pulls at your heart-strings. She processed what her mother said and felt empathy.
She knew exactly what to say and meant it with all her heart. What an emotionally intelligent child.
Yes my four year old daughter (my bonus baby) is the same way she’s beyond most adults. My mommy keeps saying she’s me all over again.
I’m not crying. You’re crying. As an adoptee I’ve had almost the exact same scenario with my daughter as well. She feels sorry for me and always hugs me. ❤ I let her know I love her and don’t stress about mommy’s past because it’s not her burden and I’m here to love HER.
Amen!! You are dearly beloved!! 🥰
You have such a sweet baby girl ❤️
I pray as time continues that the hole in your heart gets filled with love . So much love that the thoughts and emotions feelings you had as a child are forgotten forever. Please know that I understand and I love you
I am crying 😭❤️
Just accept it, bud. We're both crying
I’m also adopted and just hearing that made me tear up. That is a wonderful family!
I can’t imagine being an adoptee and your child says “I want you”. I can’t imagine how much healing that did for the mom. I just hope the mom realizes she was wanted, that’s why they adopted her. I understand things happen but if you give up a child just because you don’t want them, you’re evil. Keep healing your inner child momma❤️
Her adopted life has now came full circle, she is the mom that's wanted and has stuck around 👍
You’re really handsome. :)
😢🖖🏼
It would've been actual full circle if she would've adopted her child instead of birthing her lol
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@@TheNightshadePrinceGo back to grinder
I was adopted at birth. My birth mother couldn't mentally handle children. She was slow and only had the mental capacity of a 14 year old and Men took advantage of her. So her cousin adopted me. She told me year's later. "I wanted you very much I love you! But they said I couldn't take care of you cause I'm not smart." It broke My heart. She's a beautiful person and we have a great relationship. Everything happens for a reason. God's plan for your life isn't always what you want but it's what's Best.
Thank you for sharing, Bonnie! That was so sad that she was told that, but I completely agree that everything happens for a reason. And it's wonderful that you have a great relationship with her now. What a blessing! May God continue to bless you both & your families! ❤
@@AB_Evans God bless you as well.
Thank you. I’m adopted too and I hated how this mother unjustly maligned her biological mother to her child. It’s far more likely that she couldn’t take care of her or wasn’t allowed to. Now the child has an image of anyone who gives up a child as being in the wrong. I’d hate to be an adoptive parent of a child in the daughter’s class, as she might unwittingly say something unkind at any time.
I want to hear more of your story.
I know a little boy who was adopted at birth, same situation, his parents both couldn’t mentally handle children, I didn’t know too much more other than that but it ended up perfect because the little boy not only looks just like his adoptive parents, but his adoptive parents had been trying for a baby for many years and they just couldn’t get pregnant so They raised him so well and then all of a sudden, his birth parents got pregnant again! And they were able to adopt that little baby as well, a baby girl. So now he has a full blood sister and although I feel for the woman who can’t care for her babies, I’m happy they ended up with the perfect people.
They’re Out here healing wounds they never created 😭😭😭
I was an overthinking child. Hearing that her mom didn't want her would have rocked my world and make me very anxious and depressed 😢 Things we say or show to little children can have a huge impact on them.
I was adopted at birth. Not because i wasnt wanted, but because my birth parents couldnt afford children. My parents always told me how loved and wanted I was. I remember once in elementary school, for mothers day, I was drying because I "didn't know my mom, my REAL mom," and my teacher held me and told me that out of everyobe in this room, that I was the only one whose parents had specifically picked me out, that they wanted ME, and that lack of blood relation doesnt mean anything when it comes to family. I still think about that conversation often and am so grateful for that teacher.
Your real mom is the one that rasied you with love, your biological mom in this case is the one that made the hard decision to give you up so you could both have a better life
What an awesome teacher. That's a great way of spinning a really complicated issue in a positive light for a child. It's objectively true as well, and proof that sometimes it's all about you the way you look at a situation.
That’s such a sweet memory. I’m glad you got to hear that❤️
Yes, Yes Yes Just because you are not blood related, doesn't make the love a parent feels for you any less. I actually believe it's more special because you were chosen to be their child. I love all the beautiful children that come into my life, just as much as I do, the children I gave birth to. You are beautifully loved ❤❤❤❤❤
What an awesome teacher. 🙂 Blood may be thicker than water, but love is what makes a true family. 🙂
This is a good example of why parents need to be honest and clear with children at a young age especially when they’re developing. This young girl, who is three years old was able to understand, and her sense of empathy was so pure.😊
Exactly. Same with death as well. We can't hide it and then dump all the info on them later
Even more importantly, when she meets other kids who were adopted like her mom this girl isn’t going to tease or stare. She’s going to accept it, which reinforces what those new parents are: that adoptees parents. Kudos to honest mom for helping teach acceptance & kudos to daughter for understanding.
You can tell kids the truth about anything, just simplify it for them
But why this kid didn't meet the new Grandma?
Tbh it just seems to me like the mom is already using her daughter to vent to at the ripe age of 3.
Her mom is the woman who adopted her. It's the parent who steps up that matters, not the parent who steps out.
You are doing such a good job as a mother! Being open and honest with her when most parents would think “oh she’s too young” and not have the conversation is fantastic. Keep it up! She is the absolute sweetest!