Diane Tells Bow and Dre They Treat Her Differently Because She's a Girl - black-ish
2020 ж. 24 Қар.
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Bow (Tracee Ellis Ross) and Dre (Anthony Anderson) tell Diane (Marsai Martin) that she has to be careful about showing her body online. But when Jack (Miles Brown) posts shirtless pics of himself on Instagram, they respond with fire emojis. Diane says she's being treated differently -- and she's right. From 'black-ish' season 7, episode 7, 'Babes in Boyland.' Watch black-ish WEDNESDAY 9:30|8:30c on ABC, streaming, on demand, and Hulu.
Diane Just said “ I can’t wear lipstick but, you can flaunt your bird chest all over the internet” had me weak asf 😆😆😆
Like an eagle or sparrow.
And Jack said what kind of bird an eagle lol
I said “ no not the bird chest” 💀💀😂😂
Same lol, I was like “damn Diane not the bird chest chile” 😂 😂
😂😂
little black girls are too “grown” but little black boys are “players”. No sense
It’s a Man’s World... so They say.
@@beebrown4054 it’s a man’s world but it’s nothing without a woman or a girl
@@beebrown4054 did you not hear the rest of the song? Like the literal next line?
@@dude4054 Right! Everybody always quotes that song,,, and forgets the second part 🤦🏿♀️
100% TI is a great example for perpetuating this bs with his own kids. The way he treats his daughter sickens me🤢
It's funny cause a man can get a different woman pregnant every day for a year if he wanted to. A woman can only get pregnant once a year and yet we bear the biggest burden of not being 'too sexual'
Come on now!
Let’s be realistic instead ain’t no nigga got 365 bitches to fuck in a year some men can’t even get one but I understand your point
EXACTLYYY
I knew a guy who ended up with 7 different baby mamas in one year, and it was in a small town. He was considered a god, and the women were shunned. Humans are weird.
@@NiaLaLa_V they’re not weird. They just sometimes suck
Black girl struggle: You can't wear certain things or have certain hairstyles cause "It's too GROWN ". EVEN IF IT'S NOT
@@crazywhat8472 Go educate yourself before talking. This is giving me second-hand embarrassment seeing your stupidity 🤢
Crazy what? Uhh no. I'm Asian with straight hair and I've never had those struggles of the hair thing. Are you mad because black women state their struggles?
@@crazywhat8472 no see,since slavery black girls have been raped for just looking like themselves and so when the adults in the community say u look to grown it's the fear that because of how much curves we have or because we look a little older that someone will try to hurt us.People of other ethnic groups cannot were braids because 1.your hair might fall out and 2. black women have come to the work place and been told their hairstyle iunprofessional. It happens in school as well.Also when white people wear braids, ya'll act like u created it WHEN U WERE THE ONES WHO SAID THEY WERE UGLY AND MADE IS FEEL SELF CONSCIOUS. This wasn't about what I commented but don't try to check me if u don't do your research hun. Im sorry that I made u cry but these are facts
@@crazywhat8472 Bitch shut up
@@crazywhat8472 honey hush..you're embarrassing yourself✨🤡✨
I agree with Diane. The "he cant get pregnant" comment is still to this day one of the most ignorant of all ignorant comments. As if girls miraculously become pregnant on their own.
But he CANT get get pregnant...🤷🏾♀️ We hate the term, but it’s truth. And it’s an impactful truth. At 15-18 that girl is a child still living with her parents. Now unless you’re going to move your 15 year olds out together, than it’s almost impossible for the father to be JUST AS responsible as the mother. I know society is all GIRL POWER and what not but it doesn’t apply here...
@@tameracoates398 pls stfu
@@tameracoates398 If your boy has a child you know he still has to be accountable and take care of the baby? It's not just the mom and he may need to give child support. So yes, boys also "get pregnant". What you're saying is just bullshit, it takes 2 to have a baby and BOTH need to take care of the baby.
Right?! If Diane get's pregnant you (may) only have to care of one baby. She can only be pregnant once for 9 months. Jack can impregnate as many girls as he wants - and how many babies will y'all have then? This makes it worse when people say "but the mother's family will take care of them" and let the father run around like crazy. This way of thinking has to stop immediately. I'm so surprised Bow is even acting like this with her feminism and medical degree - oop and an OLDER daughter.
@Clau-chau Nicol I agree with you. Boys who have parents that have this mindset, in my opinion, are only teaching their sons to be irresponsible with their sexual choices. Holding them to the same standard as their daughters will benefit them in the long run. Like how parents want their daughters to be careful, sons should be taught the same thing.
I remember when they brought up the topic of double standards when Dre was bragging about Junior losing his virginity, but then getting upset when he learned Zoe had lost hers. You can't make progress with double standards.
Exactly
And when Bow was bragging about Zoey losing her virgininity while upset about Junoir losing his.
Parents, they got to understand to treat both genders equally
@@yagerzero Nope.
Theres double standards everywhere tho...a woman choses to keep or abort a fetus..a man doesnt have that right and yet has to yeild to the outcome(he cant even choose to have no responsibility for the child as if it were aborted which should be his right shortly after its birth) some men are stuck paying childsupport that were proven to not be their biologically because the courts want someone to hold that financial burden. In the US, boys are circumsized cause "its cleaner" or "it looks better" yet there is no chant about his body his choice. If we want to talk about double standards, we also have to be willing to take down the ones that hurt men or benifit women.
So Jack can make out with a girl in the stairwells at school and gets nothing but praise, meanwhile Diane can’t wear another boys sweatshirt? Interesting
RIGHT???
they praise him for doing something they'd take her locks off for.
It’s called a double standard I believe. What is shocking is how many people defend their stupid, irresponsible attitudes just out of not wanting to put the effort to change them. Even BOW?!
@@yucol5661 And she calls herself a feminist 🙄🙄🙄 where’s the equality in how she’s raising her kids?
There are plenty things girls can do guys aren't allowed to do. It varies based on the popular culture, but its there.
I am really sick of adults ignoring good points made by their children just cause they think they know best because they’re older
THIS. parents feel like because we’re their children, our voices are invalid or don’t even matter. But then ask why we didn’t like them, or even hated them in the future.
Omg i can relate to that my parents are just like that:(
Tell it !
Or they'll say you are disrespectful and mouthy because you called them out in behavior they crucify you for all the damn time.
Prepares you for work
Diane was right. She had a point. Jack can get a girl pregnant and that should not make him be any less responsible just because he is a boy.
It does though. Like that rapper who checked that his daughter was still a virgin. Meanwhile his sons are doing whatever.
Facts
@@vianjelos That still doesn't make the double standards okay. Them doing that isn't going to make Diane listen. She'll just resent them and go behind their back
@@vianjelos Yeah, but if he gets somebody pregnant, he’d be responsible for making that person go through all of that. That’s also something parents need to take seriously
@@vianjelos He can also die from STIs as can she
“But he can get someone pregnant” best line of defense ever !
Crazy what? Not everyone can say no so stfu 🤦🏾♀️ people like you need to seek help immediately!!
@@crazywhat8472 ah yes, because every person listens when a girl says no! ever heard of a rapist?
Yes, but he can get her pregnant and LEAVE, as a lot of deadbeat dads go. She on the other hand would be left to suffer. The playing field isn't leveled, so the treatment cannot be the same. One needs more protection than the other. It's as simple as that.
Brandon Denver and all children need protection mentally and physically not jus females lmao boys should not be praised for being a predator at all and girls should not be limited or restricted from expressing themselves freely 🤦🏾♀️ women and girls should not be put on blast for being themselves or feel afraid of a man of have to face consequences or suffer from an ignorant man child’s actions like you people need serious help
@@larynhill3816 You totally missed my point. We can end our discussion here for the sake of my sanity, as I doubt I'd be able to make my point any clearer to you.
Diane brought up a point people love to ignore. The “he can’t get pregnant” argument is all fun and games until he’s dropping off babies at your house to raise since the mom and the moms family got fed up while he goes and does what he wants to do. Too many grandparents are raising grandkids because they don’t realize that they’ve instilled the “deadbeat” mindset of little to no accountability for boys.
mom and mom's family??? same dumb double standard???? What about the men?
“So I have the right to do what I did but I shouldn’t have done it?” That pretty much sums up what being a woman feels like
Having the right to do something doesn’t mean you should do it. For example: You technically have the choice of stealing, but if you choose to actually steal something you are putting yourself in a situation to get arrested. You made the choice to steal, but you still suffered consequences in accordance to that choice.
@@imanijones54 it's a choice to steal, but it's not your right
Yeeeeeeeeees. I have the right to do whatever I want,but that doesnt mean there arent consequences to the actions.
@@imanijones54 nobody has the right to steal tho.
@@uchealisha9510 Okay then let’s put this another way. You have the right to freedom of speech but if you say some stupid racist crap expect to get smacked.
Any girl alive (or dead ) , anywhere on this planet belonging to any culture can relate to this.
Correct!
FOR REAL!
Facts💀🙄.
Absolutely correct
Fr
"We don't have to worry about jack because he can't get pregnant" I'm so glad Diane called him out because that floored me. Dre is the kind of person that thinks raising their voice adds more validity to their point.
That's just basic parenting 101
@@10RexTheWolf01 dumb parenting
@@Prince_the_One We've always known this
@@10RexTheWolf01 right smh
She said quiet ain’t no back talk
we need to break the sexist cycle. it’s honestly weird
What!
@@bhadieekhalipl3926 ?
We need to stop this convo when woman have a lot more to lose if pregnant a man as we have seen for years can run off to another world and be ok yet she stop school, work, life and even her growth as a person to bare a child and then even more after .. so being stric on a girl is for her safety cause I dare any of u to give ur daughters freedom to do as they please in highschool .. especially with WAP and idols like meg stallion and cardi b and all these over sexulized idols online they look to ... .I guarantee you also we pushing your child on the stricter end after seeing some of the decisions in one week let alone one day
@@bhadieekhalipl3926 i’m a teen😭 strict parents or not i have never engaged in any kind of or behavior or anything that would put me in the predicament to be pregnant. regardless most people use pregnancy as the excuse to harbor their girls while their sons are out there doing dumb shit.
@@bhadieekhalipl3926 "a man, as we have seen for years, can run off to another world and be ok" *That* would be your son in this situation.. DO BETTER 🤣🤣 It's not about giving women more freedom, it's about raising boys with higher standards.
When I was 15 I would get slapped around by my dad if I even talked to a guy, but my brother's girlfriend lived with us and even shared a room with him. How old was she?... 16. I lived with these double standards until I was able to leave a couple of years later.
we have to do better
I’m so sorry. There’s no way to justify these blatant double standards, it’s just misogyny
☹️
i’m so sorry
babe im so sorry ❤️ hope you can teach em by raising your kids the SAME. (or by smth else if u dont want kids)
I like that they’re focusing more on jack and Diane. Now that they’re growing up they have much more complex storylines. And I’m here for it.
J
Diana had always been my favorite.
It seems this show is gonna end this season, all the storylines are wrapping up
It’s diane not Diana
@@triforcewill OMG SHHHH
In my opinion, Diane has THE hardest plight of all the children. First the colorism now her being a female. Marsei plays this character well, but the things that go on with her character on this show are very disheartening.
No. Junior
Yet, true.*Very accurate & true so it needs to be talked about*.
@@zanellemutoko4372 nah Junior gets it bad for being a dork, and we need to have a conversation about allowing black men be dorks. But Dianne is smarter and less dorky than her brothers and still faces sexism and colorism from both her own parents!!
@@mynameisuju 💀
Let’s not forget to add in her hair back near the beginning of this series
At least “my wife and kids” showed the consequences of focusing more on the girl and not so much on the boy. Junior was the first one to come home with a baby
Exactly !
I know. He was an idiot but one heck of a dad. 😂
Like always
@@PrincessYonna1 ikr its sad smh.
@WildChild that’s the worst place he could have thought of 🤣🤦🏿♀️
"I really support this boys will be boys thing" Mom says "not now" Noooo. NOW is the time to talk about it. I think that was Diane's whole point.
That's deep tbh 🤙
I thought he was saying that on purpose to show his support for what Diane was saying
Ever since Dre became jealous of Junior throughout the later season of blackish I was like are you serious?He really pissed me off.
Hi armyy
@@lou1595 happy holidays army💜 I purple you!!
I swear, Diane is the only voice of reason in that house sometimes. Her and Zoë.
Exactly, they’re young ladies, just proves society right that women are just better!
Zoe idk after watching grownish I can’t stand her
@@loser101sundays5 I feel like Zoey is a much better side character then lead cause I preferred her in blackish then in grownish
@@KLB1218 calm down no gender is better than the other. In the end women are what made this world the way it is, but you don't see anyone talking about that
@@candycorn4912 how? because from a historical standpoint the patriarchal structure implemented by men fucked it up
Diane would make a great lawyer!
No she wouldn’t 🤔 am thinking Supreme Court Judge or even Madam President 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿😝😜😍
She's the next Claire Huxtable. I hope the writers are giving us hints
@@mariao1508 to be a supreme court judge you have to go to law school and be a lawyer... so that was for nothing
@@lamoskgr oh my god lmafo not the Cosby show and dre is the bill Huxtable
@@mariao1508 or assassin hitman mastermind dictator alchemist
People like to bring up "WAP" to use against women but won't bring up the tons of other popular songs all about sexualizing women, mostly written by men. Make it make sense please 😕
Jesus Christ, THANK YOU for putting it in words.
PERIOD. Men love to sexualize women but when a woman expresses her own sexuality they are shook
Throat Baby is a great example. Dumb ass song.
Men doing doesn't make it better you're indirectly encouraging over sexualisation of women men and women shouldn't present a female in a way to make her look exciting she deserves respect not for her body to be lustful for others and now we wonder why young girls feel the need to under dress it's the same game you've changed the characters
@@lana4127 Im a girl who dresses conservatively most of the time and I don’t care about WAP or how other women choose to dress 🤷🏽♀️ quit being a prune
This type of stuff triggers me soo much, the fact it’s every girls reality at one point in life, as if a guy can’t go around an impregnate the whole town if he tried.
Then every woman in the town will open their legs so he can do that it takes a boy and a girl to impregnate someone.
@@ricosworld7083 then perhaps let’s both genders respect what we wish to do,the fact you couldn’t like and keep scrolling.... the fact that was hypothetical.....
@@amberj1832 you could of did the same wit her you chose to leave a comment and reply. Shut up you said nothing lmao
@@flyyou6383 I made a single comment, this person had a reply to my comment, so my response will be what I deem fit, however I’m sure you wouldn’t understand why, you seem a bit upset at what I had to say, the whole point was that I’ll debate a topic with a person, @ricardo smith could have said something back if they felt the need... perhaps you don’t understand why comment sections exist, perhaps one day you will... I hope at least.
@@flyyou6383 Translation: in comment sections people may say what they think about the topic at hand, then another person might have an issue with what the original comment said so they say something a bit disrespectful, then depending on the nature of the situation it might end up addressed, that’s what happened if you have a problem with that, do you have a issue when a person correctly responds to a disrespectful statement? Or is it only ok if you deem it disrespectful rather then the person in question?
I'm the only girl amongst my siblings; this episode triggered the HELL out of me. Any other only-girls can relate?
Yes our lives are miserable af
I can . Only girl and last born with three brothers.
@@ayadweik1 God forbid we wore lip gloss at 13. While the bros were doing wreckless activity.
@@GG-yp6ix Same boat 🙄
Of course
I pray Hollywood doesn't destroy this beautiful young lady. I can see her doing great things for younger generations, being a role model for young women.
Can totally seeing her growing up to be like Keke Palmer classy, successful and in her own lane sure her real parents are doing a wonderful job haha
@@SirCentex OOOOh yes I totally see the Keke comparison, you know I love me some Keke! 💗
Same same! I spent some intimate time with her and her mothehr. She's got a great head on her shoulders and her mom is very close with her. I don't think Hollywood would take advantage of such a strong family unit, but I hope she doesn't change as she grows older.
Agreed! She can be a great role model for young girls and more. Yara Shahidi was a great role model for kids at a young age and if done right Caila can be a great role model just like her
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just because Jack can’t get pregnant doesn’t mean he can’t get someone else pregnant. and one thing i hate is when a daughter gets a boyfriend and their just yelled at but when i boy gets a girlfriend he’s praised. 😤🙄 no logic
@SoggyShrimp male and female are two different genders but we are one CALLED HUMANS either your daughter is pregnant or your son gets someone pregnant either way a child is going to come into this world and BOTH PARTIES are responsible for that childs well being
@SoggyShrimp yep male privilege.
@SoggyShrimp Can you describe "female privilege"?
I agree that boys and girls shouldn’t be treated differently. But instead of relaxing the rules on girls to make it equal, let’s tighten the rules on boys to make it equal. Cut down on some of these teenage pregnancies!
The best way to cut down on teen pregnancy is to give them easy and cheap access to birth control.
@@bonnieosullivan9950 totally agree. There are probably only a handful of teens who practice abstinence or waiting until marriage. We can’t just expect 16 year olds to wait until they are married. Easy/accessible birth control is the best option.
@@kamzylla they’re SIXTEEN. They are legally children and should not be having sex. So yes they need stricter rules and discipline.
@@melliexcx they are going to have it no matter what. Might as well teach them about safe ways to go about it then have them not knowing how to do it safely and not only risk pregnancy but STDs as well.
Melissa Okeke no lmaoooo you would be a horrible parent please don’t have kids
Echoing Chimamanda's words "The problem with gender is that it prescribes to how we should be rather than recognizing how we are”
Off topic but we have the same name😂
It's always the transphobic woman
Echoing my old school grandmother, "If bitches kept their legs close, we wouldn't have all these hos."
That's true.
@@micheleogina5378 ooohhhh
Being the baby and only girl with 4 older brother this triggers me. This was my argument with my parents my whole childhood and still is to this day. Yet 3 out of my four brothers had a child before 20, and constantly got in trouble. I on the other hand was an honor student and stayed out of trouble. Now I'm 27 and in charge of all important family decisions.
Are you okay with that?
But look at you now? So how was this a bad thing? They should have been equally as strict on your bros though. But had you gotten pregnant things would have been far more difficult.
If they'd been stricter with your brothers they'd have probably turned out just as capable as you. But they were so hyperfixated on *you* not being a "hoe" they didn't focus on their boys bring "bums" and now you're more successful than them. It worked out well for you in the end but at the expense of their sons and at your own teenaged frustrations. My mom's hard on my brother just as much as he is on us (he's an only boy) and his friends think he gets treated like a girl yet they're the ones with mental health issues that aren't getting solved, skirting legal problems left and right, and making poor choices in life at every turn (one of them is already an alcoholic at 16) but they don't notice that they just think it's independence and "being a man." At some level I'm kinda thankful my parents didn't learn how to "raise bots like boys" coz it'd have done my brother a disadvantage.
I can relate thankfully he never got anyone pregnant but everytime he'd do something stupid i had to get lecturered twice as much like I was dumb enough to do it to like how he got suckered it to overpaying for a car and wreck it in a week I could go buy my car without them with me and was aloud to talk to the dealer and had to be drilled on car safty and was alod to drive without someone with me and not at all at night for a month or the time went base jumping in Hawaii lone and broke his leg and i tried to keep me from going to an anime con at hotel in our own town with six of my girl friends
@@availanila EXACTLY. This shit is so annoying lol.
This’ll be established: If I have a son who gets a girl pregnant and she cannot get an abortion, he’s gonna take care of the baby. No questions.
Amen
Bad grandparent alert
@@mynameisnotkinsley7061 it’s called making someone take responsibility
@@xiayabennett6982 periodt
@evandragonfire What? If he was raped, he's not going to be responsible for that child
*"She can say "sweetie" all she wants she's still yelling at you"*
I didn’t know that other people experienced the threat of “taking the door off the hinges” 😂
It’s gross, horrible and disturbing to take the door off your child’s room. Unless they’re a suicide or addiction risk, robbing them of their privacy is robbing them of an important boundary and ruins relationships
I had my doors off for a long time. Lol. I don't even remember what I did. But I had to shower and dress in the bathroom for at least 6 to 8 months.
😭🤣
@@preciousjackson2590 I'm so sorry😪
@@meliycon-roma4112 Thank you! It's not as bad as it seems. I got my door back eventually. I was the last to get pregnant out of the family I hung out with and friends I had lol.
They didn’t even knock on her door before entering
She don’t pay any bills lol.
@@KLB1218 it doesn’t matter , privacy is very important , especially for teens ... lack of privacy causes a lot of problems creating sneaking teens etc and this is not discussed in the black homes
@@KLB1218 that’s a terrible mindset to have. Everyone deserves privacy. Knocking on the door doesn’t take away from her parents owning the house
My parents don’t knock on my door they just enter, and as they should, I don’t pay the bills it’s their house
@Brooke lmao true
This made me cry because it’s so so sooo freaking true. Girls are oppressed in their own homes and it’s just too much
It hit a bit to close to home 😐
I hate when ppl use the pregnancy excuse bc girls don't impregnate themselves. I understand where they're coming from bc it's easier for the boy to walk away while the girl has to deal with judgement, abortion, adoption etc They have to make adult decisions even though they are still a child. We need to hold the boys just as responsible. My parents would and I'm grateful for that
Blackish might be one of my top 5 shows and I'm glad they are still making episodes
Truly.
Same! Ima be so sad when it ends it’s so funny
@@jillmont3342 same bro
Diane spoke facts
@Ashton A Daine must be allowed to be pregnant if she wants
@Ashton A Where does Diane live? Who’s responsible for Diane, therefore responsible for her baby? Now the boy that gets her pregnant... Where does he live? Not with Diane and that baby putting the SOLE responsibility on Diane and her family NOT the boy. We hate the real facts of it all but those are it. We approach girls about pregnancy because they are the ones carrying the child, they are the ones that are limited during that first YEAR( 9 months of sickness, fatigue, weight gain, swollen ankles, diapers,I could go on forever) They are the ones risking their lives giving birth dealing with complications and risk. Natural setbacks that only God can answer to not the government. THERES A DIFFERENCE! We need to stop making everything political and about fairness- this isn’t! It’s a simple fact with a million naturally warranted reasons why it is harder for girls.
@@tameracoates398 you sound so dumb rn , like boys and girls both need to be treated the same doesn’t matter who gets pregnant or gets someone pregnant like bro shut up you make it seem like it’s girls fault and the boy just sits back and doesn’t even care and all the responsibilities fall on to the girl
@@bri4009 Where did I say it was her fault- Where did anyone say FAULT?? Why are you making this something it isn’t? I was a young mother you goof- I know it wasn’t my fault! I’m also know that what I went through WAS DIFFERENT from what he went through-and it had nothing to do with equal responsibility of the child! But you probably are a child- So I’m done talking to you- You’ve obviously missed real world experiences, right along with reading comprehension and common sense. You are an exact example of why this generations ignorance’s going to be the destruction of this world... Can’t keep your head out of your ass long enough to hear what someone is ACTUALLY saying to you... Bri the OVERLORD🤦🏾♀️
I feel you Tamera.... 100% fact
There's a man and woman in my town that we all know. They aren't related, but they both have 4+ kids. When they talk about him, they just laugh about him having all these kids from different women. I think he has 6 kids. But when they talk about her, it takes a serious tone with her being shameful for having that many kids.
“HE can’t get PREGNANT.” “BUT HE CAN GET SOMEONE PREGNANT!!” Why does society forget that it takes a MAN to get a woman pregnant?! The double standard is real!
The “He can get someone pregnant” is the argument I been fighting for yeeeeeeearrrrrsssss 😤
No point made cause u do understand it takes the female to open her legs for him to insert? So in the most respectful way ... u start with the source... a man can’t go around having sex with woman that won’t allow him.. yet it’s “boys will be boys “ well actually it’s girls being girls and allowing to much that also allows the boys to be boys
@@bhadieekhalipl3926 it takes two to get pregnant so it doesn’t matter if it “girls will be girls “ or “boys will be boys” because at the end of the day there’s parents out there letting their sons do whatever they want and are getting girls pregnant
@@MizhaeBoo15 again it’s like saying o it takes two to fight but one is a hot head and the other reacts when warranted .. so again everyone stop worrying about the other child and focus on ur sons of u have a son and focus on ur daughter if I have a daughter and teach them well and we all win... if the girl is taught don’t open ur legs boom boy gets no sex!!! Simple if not is taught don’t sleep with these girls unless u love em then boom problem solved ... and if both sides of parents stop allowing the media to expose kids to sexual content and thinking it’s cute then boom we change the culture simple
BhadieeKhali Pl something is mentally wrong with you for you to think that way 🤦🏾♀️ ummm boys aren’t taught to respect women or even taught about the female reproductive organs yet women are taught about theirs..... men aren’t taught to love and respect themselves and women aren’t either like it’s so many men that are whores and sluts and will have sex with any and everything which is so disgusting like men are taught from a young age to be predators and creeps by low down deadbeat men ..... young boys are taught to take advantage and manipulate women then play victim ..... men aren’t taught to care for others or learn basic human rights.... men aren’t taught to nurture and love for one another.... boys will not be boys lmao boys will learn and face consequences for their actions and take accountability men will no longer be able to treat women any kinda way or take advantage of anyone ever again boys will be taught to do better and all children will be treated equally like it has been proven that men are the problem in the world it’s all men’s fault that’s the world is the way it is and girls aren’t allowed to do anything so what you said was really stupid it’s the little boys who get away with everything and girls are always at fault when indeed it is the boys who are truly wrong but it’s only Bc boys aren’t taught right and that they have horrible man babies as father figures or deadbeats y’all really need to do better like seriously smh
@az_koala Like me, luckily when I got raped by my brother I didn't have my period yet.
Jack maybe slow but that "boys will be boys" comment was funny. Jack is like, don't let y'all beef with Diane interfere with my love life. 😄
It was HILARIOUS
do better
What-
@@greener336 shut up
Lmao
If I wear baggy clothes I need to dress more feminine, but if I wear feminine clothes I'm showing off my body. While my brothers can get away with wearing the same clothes for a week
Omg my mom is the one saying I should like skirts and crop top but she was the one saying creepy people will look yet she encourages me to wear them. It’s so annoying. Like what do you want me to wear?
@@nightmare3691 exactly What do you want from meeee??!!!
3:04 - Diane gets pregnant and that's just one grandkid they gotta worry about for 9-10 months. Jack can do much more damage in that time span.
Very true.
I raised my boys with the same rules and strict values as the girls. There is no such thing as "boys will be boys" in my house. You will honor the code of our tribe or face severe consequences regardless of your sex.
Well done :)
you’re a good parent 🥺
That’s the same mindset and plan I have in mind for when I have kids one day.
Ladies, stop raising those boy on " boys will be boys"😭 They NEVER outgrow that!
Parents always think the "But he can't get pregnant" excuse is the end all be all. Like congrats? You raised a son that you think will abandon his own child?? What a great parent you are.
My parents didn’t even let me wear nail polish til I was 14 or 15 cuz it was too grown 😓 how tf does that make sense
i wanted to wear heels my freshman year of high school and my mom told me no because "she wasn't ready to see me in heels yet". i literally got my first pair of heels my senior year of high school because my mom and stepdad were getting married. SENIOR YEAR.
Yup. I remember this at their age. My dad actually gave my brother more of an allowance "because he's a boy," and he would say you can get the guy to pay! WHAT!
' Flaunt your bird chest' lmao you know what..........
My mom used to say “boys make babies, girls bring babies home”
It’s sadly very true tho a lot of teen couples have babies then a few months after the birth I don’t see their baby daddy with them anymore
@@jillmont3342 not the girls fault tho
All I know is this, when I have kids, I’m gonna be just as paranoid about my daughter getting pregnant as my son getting a girl pregnant. Unless both end up gay then I guess problem solved.
bro somebody had to say it. stop treating girls different
Stop protecting girls more than boys ;)
@@2laniful what makes you say this dude????
@@2laniful Protecting? When has the world ever protected young girls huh black or not.
@@jeanmehu6299 that is what the parent's are doing. They think the girl needs more protection than the boy.
@@briworld9649I don't know about the world but I will protect women and children as long as I am strong enough to do so
I love love LOVE how beautifully she’s grown from a cute little girl to a beautiful young lady and one day a stunning woman 💯
Double standards are wrong no question. Now I think about it she had a point a guy can get someone pregnant and leave. Creating a continuous cycle of this for generations to come. Why do we not try to prevent this as much as a girl getting pregnant. Honestly seems like the double standard has a big role to play, guys have always been told you got a way out, and its her baby so they take it. Putting more responsibility on these guys more solve a lot.
The same thing happened with me and my brothers. Also let’s not forget that boys can get MULTIPLE girls pregnant while girls are pregnant for 9 months.
Not really boys wear condoms
@@calmingvids9585 some of the little fuckers poke holes in it, and if you going to get someone pregnant you stay with them but nooo the “things” just leave
Me and my wife got a 10 year old daughter , and I keep having minor heart attacks trynna make her understand how dangerous social medial and the internet can be in terms of sharing her images, videos and thoughts.........................I watch blackish cause its both hilarious and always has its pulse on real life challenges that black families face, globally!!!!
It is really hard to teach the children the difference between what people think and do online. Because online is forever. Keep up the good work !
You should watch it with your daughter! This show can get the conversation going
@@justagirl4627 we do, she loves it too...........
The same as tiktok
Globally ✨👌
My mom raised me with stricter rules than my brothers. At a young age I thought it was unfair but as I have gotten older I understood where she was coming from. When we "have the talk" it should be given to boys as well as girls. The conversation starts at home. Parents should teach girls and boys to not only respect there body but others as well. All we can do is teach them and pray they carry those teachings as they get older. This world is not easy and can be very judgmental and at times unfair. I read where people said dont put religion in it..maybe if we put Jesus in all that we do this world would be a better place! To love one another, respect one another, understand without passing judgment, and teach each other that just cause he's a boy or she's a girl the rules apply to both! We can't teach equality and not show what that means! Have a bless day 🙏 💖
I can't believe we still have to have these conversations in 20 damn 20. SMH.
This is such a relatable struggle, we say "boys will be boys" and call out the girls for showing too much "skin" and "acting out", because heaven forbid we should all be treated with the same respect.
omw, Jack is now taller than Diane
Yup i always wondered who was the oldest between the two
@@_noemi_9687 its Diane
@@_noemi_9687 she said it in a couple episodes that shes older
Yeah I know finally lol
Watch he's going to get a growth spurt then be taller than junior
Forget Zoey, she's a lousy character. Diane needs her own spin-off when she graduates.
Wow. It is true. HE CAN GET SOMEONE PREGNANT. IT IS A TIME WE TEACH OUR SON BE RESPONSIBLE AND RESPECT WOMAN DIGNITY. DON'T SIMPLY HAVE SEX BECAUSE YOU CAN. BECAUSE SEX COME WITH RESPONSIBILITY.
True and he should be responsible for that child, be part of that child life, not only financially but should able to see the child legally.
I remember my friend was trapped by this girl I really wished she would've taken better choices because now she has a child and is working full time to provide for the baby True story
Sex is a two way street. So if she chooses to have sex with a boy. The responsibility is just as much as a man.
Blackish can only get away with this message because Bow and Dre are being hypocrites. And I expect this of Dre but I don't think Bow would be so hyped about her son kissing someone. But there are lots of families that hold their sons to the same standard as their daughters, and I *thought* Bow was that kind of parent. And now that I think about it, didn't they do this exact same plotline a while ago with Junior and Zoey? Didn't Dre and Bow learn there lesson then? They even used the exact same "boys will be boys" line then and it feels just as non-subtle then as it does now.
I remember that episode too, and to me it just felt real. Parents say they’ve learned and they understand, but they don't. Not really. This is why the issue came up again with Diane and Jack. Bow and Dre didn't learn, instead they channeled all of that behaviour into Diane and Jack. Very realistic portrayal even if it was unintended.lol
The fuck your a hypocrite too Anakin was congratulated by palpating for having sex with Palme and you didn’t say a word and I quote “good Anakin good, fuck her, fuck her now” you didn’t stop palpating then did you? The Jedi are full of hypocrites or so it seems.
Wow the double standard is disgusting. I'm glad that my parents didn't treat me and my brother like this and that we both had to have the conversation about relationships and hormones equally
"He can get someone pregnant." At the end of my Quince (party for when I turn 15) while we were putting things away I was waiting for my mom. So I was just standing around thinking about taking that dang dress off. And from the corner of where I was I hear my cousin(older than me) and a few of my tias along with my mom talking. I heard something along the lines of "Well at least she's not pregnant!!🤣🤣🤣" they were all laughing while I held back my tears. Because I knew they would say stuff behind my back if I was pregnant. Hearing this from people I love really hurts. I already know how some of my family can be, and it really disgusts me, but what more can I do? I'm still a kid in there eyes.
Literally had to have this conversation with my mom and she just gets pissy
"but he can get someone pregnant"👏👏👏👏well said
No cause this is actually true, when junior wasn’t a virgin anymore he was so happy to throw a celebration for him but when bow told him about Zoey, he was being so extra
Man Diane endures a lot of gaslighting and it’s so frustrating to watch! She deserved better!
Haven't watched this show in a long time and, damn, the kids have grown have grown up so much! 😮😮😮😮
She is SO right about girls being treated indifferent in the family comparing to boys. Been there🙋🏻♀️
Great scene. Diane spoke the truth. Also, the twins REALLY emphasize their 'Ts' when they speak. Must be the private schooling.
Good catch!
Noticed that too!!
@@gbidlviefb5112 Their education would be implied by the reference to their schooling,, but thanks for being redundant.
@@gbidlviefb5112 The education part is implied by my reference to their schooling, but thanks for being redundant. Besides, it more likely stems from directions from the director or an acting coach. It was just a lighthearted comment. No offense was intended. Dayum!
It’s just diction lol
“Because he can’t get pregnant.” “But he could get somebody else pregnant!?” This actually reminds me of what my friend told me about how her parents talk with her vs her brother when she went through puberty. When her older brother was about to go into high school her dad told him to be careful and gave him some condoms and not to be afraid to ask him for more. But when she was about to go into high school both her parents told her she better not think about having sex because if she got pregnant she’d need to find some where else to live. I was always confused by this and how if a guy has a lots of girl friends and sex he’s a player/stud. But if a girl has a lot of boyfriends or even hinted to have sex she’s a slut. I’m a boy btw lol.
Thank you! I’d also like to mention why do the guy’s get help in raising they child, but when the girl gets pregnant their immediately thrown out and homeless
Diane be the realest character I mean i would get backhanded for a lot of that + the facial expressions😂 but..... Yeah sis be on it.
This isn’t just for people of colors it’s so true that men and women get treated differently in regards to what society will let them post. Like she said, her brother gets to post pictures without his shirt off but she can’t even wear lipstick. Families and society have WAY too high and strict expectations/guidelines for what girls can do vs what guys can do. They’re way more strict on us and it sucks.
I feel like our parents try to teach us to keep everything in and not show anything because creepy men might look at us and people might judge us. They should just teach the creepy men not to be creepy. Especially for girls
I know right?
But it also warns us about those creepy men too. They are out there no matter if we like it or not. They are protecting us from the inside just one tactic to keep us safe.
@@tammibrown5074 This is how I feel creepy men or not they’re going to do whatever they want you could be wearing a big baggy sweater in there still try to do something to you
@@yoag1108 they are trying to protect you but then I protect you in the right way
@Tomicaa then if they can't teach creepy men don't teach girls
I think every single girl can relate to this. When I first started dating at 16 me and my bf at the time weren't allowed to sleep near each other, if he stayed over he had to stay downstairs and this was the case for a year (age of consent in UK is 16 btw so no law against us doing anything). My brother gets a gf at 14, she is allowed upstairs in his bedroom all day and night. Called my parents out on it but they just denied doing anything differently 😒
In America, the state that I live in, NJ, the age of consent is 16, also. But, people will still say not to have sex cuz that’s still young and other reasons.
its crazy how they address such major issues in a relatable way. love this show !!!
Dre's beard is top tier, also glad this show exists, they touch on some important topics
Diane is completely right of course, but to defend her parents, she has way more potential than Jack... Also, Diane would probably point out that, since she is legitimately smarter, she should be given more autonomy... Damn, I am really glad that I don't have kids right now... parenting teenagers just seems like a lose-lose these days...
Lol it rlly does
Pretty much.
I've never seen or heard about this show and clicked on it because I was bored but I am SO glad I did.
The pain of being sexually harassed by a boy and when you speak up about it you just get told "boys will be boys"; so you just have to accept it. I have so many traumatic experiences with men. I wore a short out in public once and a man said to me "you wear things like that and then you get angry when we rape you". I have so much social anxiety now, I don't even like to leave the house unless it's absolutely necessary
We don’t care
@@Derrixk and that's why the entire world hates you. i bet you can literally think about this right now and you wont come up with one person who genuinely likes you. If you don't care about others' plight, you're the worst monster.
My Dad is not perfect but one thing he got right was drilling it into my brothers heads that if they ever got a girl pregnant he would personally ensure that they stood up to the plate and were responsible for their actions. They never have the ability to ignore the consequences and thus far none of them *knock on wood* have ever done anything risky. He put pressure on us girls too but an equal amount on the boys too i think. Too many parents want to baby boys and shield them from the consequences because they think its fine if the girls life is the only one disrupted. Can't bother Jimmy's football career or college plans but the girl can put her life on hold 🙄
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿THISSSS
Diane out here throwing folks under the bus. Damn it be ur own family
I swear 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣
As she should if they are being unfair
See this needed to be shown cause I definitely relate to my parents treating me and my little brother differently all our lives they claim they don’t but they do smfh. And it’s sad and frustrating that a lot of girls go through this at home or even out in the world.
I’m super grown but this is so relatable because I went through this growing up
I like that they’re focusing more on jack and Diana. Now that they’re growing up they have much more complex storylines. And I’m here for it.
they are so supportive. my mom had a meltdown when I had my face in a polaroid that was posted on social media, saying that my body is basically hers as I'm her child
I grew up in a house of women there were no double standards to make this particular incident relatable per se. .the overall theme of women having to curb our sexuality or how we choose to express it; is the real tone of the episode and that is extremely relatable
As a single mama raising a girl I felt that to my soul
I like how Tv shows are not only about entertainment but they are also teaching us something through the characters. Good job 👏🏼.
Dre's shirt makes my eyes hurt 😭 Also Miles' voice! Omgosh!
Diane looks cute af with that haircut!🤩
I just don't understand If i ever have this talk with my parents they will start yelling and cursing and everything, yes you want to keep your daughters safe but what about your sons? I get criticized because i'm 13 and breast is big, so i can't wear spaghetti straps or tank tops, but boys can wear boxers and tank tops that can show half of there body?
“but he can get someone pregnant”- Diana johnson
What Diane said is so true30-40 years ago and now
Honestly I loved Jack's last comment it was just proving Diane's point.
I love how they explore tough topics 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Just another shining example of why Diane is my all time Fav