4 Ways To Deal With 'Toxic People'
How can we deal with so-called 'toxic' people?
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Irony is many toxic people don’t realize they themselves are toxic. They always place blame elsewhere
Absolutely ! In the process of learning how to let go, our own toxicity must be addressed.
I wonder how many people in these comments are actually the toxic ones, but are convinced that the other party is toxic.
"Small-minded people blame others. Average people blame themselves. The wise see all blame as foolishness." -Epictetus
@Deliq Might be...I don't know. Is acceptance a choise of free will?
@Deliq We may not have a free will but we can alter how we perceive things happening to us. And that automatically changes our behavior even though we are not doing it by wanting so.
@Deliq And I don't think it has something to do with ones intelligence but how aware one lives.
Epictetus maybe never meet a real psychopath. Oh - I can't say psychopath because I will hurt theyr feelings - that they dont have. Dificult people - ??? - just name it what it is - narc / BPD - malignant what ever they are. Political correctness is hurtfull. Is it me respondability to make them feel better ?! You cant talk or love them in sanety - they are abusive even sadistic predators - you cant fix them - just stay away from them.
Foolishness has no existance in the existance!
“Learn to be indifferent to what makes no difference.” - Marcus Aurelius
"7 things negative people will do to you. They will... 1. Demean your value; 2. Destroy your image 3. Drive you crazily! 4. Dispose your dreams! 5. Discredit your imagination! 6. Deframe your abilities and 7. Disbelieve your opinions!" Love your videos! Your content has motivated me to make my own animations
Life Progress - Health, Wealth, & Happiness Channel I can’t recommend this video enough. Bill Nye is displaying every negative trade as he walks the Creation Museum. kzhead.info/sun/g7SFgsyOm4CmaIU/bejne.html I laugh so hard when Bills says his reasoning for life is to be a “productive citizen”.
All true!
Sounds like the nastiest of nastiest people..!
Perfect
Life Progress - ideas for a better life TV I think those people are called narcs sociopaths etc.😂
We live in a toxic society. Good luck not meeting people who are toxic or being toxic yourself.
HikingAlaska - I don't think it takes luck to avoid becoming a toxic person, I think it's a constant decision we make for ourselves. So, unless you were being sarcastic through a plain, old negative comment, I purport that no person who has truly decided not to be toxic ever needs any luck with it!
Thanks for the Luck then, it worked for me xD
I think the key is to not give a fuck about it and just do your thing and stand over their toxicity. You don't need nor want toxic people in your life so why care about them. If you just keep yourself from meeting new people because of the possibility that they are toxic, toxicity wins. There are a lot of kind and loving people out there and they will show themselves when you least expect it. But please don't stop enjoying your life because of those people.
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Damn
1. Walking away. 2. Indifference. 3. Inpermanence. 4. Kindness and compassion. One of my best friends from school was an incorrigibly negative person. It took me years and years to actually notice, and take action by simply walking away. I also had a sibling who was toxic. Again, walking away, and going 100 per cent no contact was the only way. As for people who I don't meet on a regular basis, or to whom I am not connected, indifference is a powerful weapon. I really struggle with treating toxic people with kindness and compassion. One cannot set oneself on fire to keep someone else warm. After being fucked over by a few toxic people in life, I will no longer suffer them.
Same here
I feel the same but then realized the people who hurt me were beyond toxic, they were extremely abusive verbally and physically. I have walked away from some toxic people who were not extreme and I have forgiven them.
I can relate to this story so much
One of the most meaningful comments I've ever read
I'm learning to look at my "how much am I part of this?" We see people as we are, not as they are, often more than not.
"Toxic" people seem to want other people to suffer as they do. It is as if they have a sickness and they want every-one else to be sick too. I find that as long as I react in a manner where I can continue to have Love for myself and who I am, then I will be okay...
Isis OSIRIS yep, toxic people hate seeing other people doing better than them and feel a need to drag people down with them, they have the mindset of “if I can’t have it nobody can” or “if I’m going down I’m taking you all with me”
from experience, sometimes toxic people might not even intend to bring another person down. but they are so psychologically unwell that they do. like someone who does nothing but look for a shoulder to cry on. they might want the best for others, but at the same time have a ton of emotional baggage that affects their own behavior many of these “toxic” people can be rather diverse. but what matters is, how they affect how YOU feel
TOXIC MEANS RUN FROM THEM AS FAR AS YOU CAN
Walking is fine
Toxic people scare me, they really do, because sometimes walking away is not enough, they follow you if you do, so you have to turn around and face the creep. These are in common terms called bullies. Bullies are toxic people with severe dysfunctional gears in their head. Even at me age, I still encounter these amoebas from time to time, but even though I am capable of defending/protecting myself physically, I have learned to maneuver my way around these creeps. Met one of these creatures in the restroom of a local restaurant. He was washing his hands, I tried to squeeze behind him, but he blocked me. I was able to make myself the thinnest I’ve ever been and was able to find myself on the other side of the door. Close call! For the most part, you can always walk away, your ego shredded, your soul rattled, but otherwise in one piece. Follow this man advice: walk away.
True Creeps... Are in Vast numbers.. Than we can Imagine
Indifference gives some people permission to persecute you more, I’ve turned the other cheek they saw that as weakness, after years of bullying I stood up for myself, no problem now, respect
Yeah I have to say indifference didn't work for me either. We moved and I had to go to a new school and they bullied me. My mum told me to ignore them but that didn't work. Then one day I just beat a few of them and I had peace for the rest of my school years 😄
My father taught me,"this too shall pass" finally it really does.thank goodness
My mother is a very hurt and angry soul this lifetime. It is so very hard to be around or even speak to her for more than around 4 minutes at any given time so I keep contact very minimal with her.i wished she could just see and feel the truth of everything.
I feel you
Your content is changing my life , thank you so much , more love to you ❤️
Thank you Joieta!
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Same here i needed this today thank you
I believe my toxic behavior roots around rejection constantly being turned down thing and people I want to be around being hurt and taken advantage of
That’s a good perspective
I speak as the toxic person that I have been for a long part of my life. I don't know how, but one day a friend made me understand how toxic I was, I really didn't know about my constant complaining, and clearly didn't notice (care) how this affected others around me. It's been a LONG process and I know I still have a huge tendency to be a compulsive complainer. I think a great way to help this kind of people, is by asking "why do you tell me all this? what can I do to help you?" that's a great way to make toxic people realize they affect others with their terrible attitude and how pointless it is. However, I know that most of the time there isn't much to do and the best option is just taking distance!
Good for you man.
Complaining is not toxic at all. It's a sign of tiredness toward life and sharing burden with those we can trust. I hate labelling people either as kind or toxic. We are just the way we are
“ ‘Why’ is considered fighting words in any language.” - Chris Voss FBI Hostage Negotiator
The fourth(expert) strategy is quite dangerous at the same time though! Many people are just negative or malignant just because they have personality disorders,albeit not full-blown many times.Even some traits of them would be sufficient to be manifested as a totally toxic personality. For instance , some dark-triad(namely narcissists ,machiavellianists or psychopaths/sociopaths) personalities would never change their attitudes towards their surroundings and being more empathetic with them is the recipe for disaster and deep trauma!!! This is because they acknowledge your empathy as leverage to further manipulate you and make you their puppet whenever they are given the chance to do so !
Yeah I forget that, thanks for bringing up an important aspect
I think the majority of the population are not extreme psychopaths and even if so that is their nature and to have something that is not within our control influence us would just be hurting ourselves.
I agree, being compassionate or kind to toxic people doesn't work. Try being kind or compassionate to a terrorist, let's see how that works out. Marcus Aurelius, as wise as he was, got this one very wrong..."For what can even the most malicious person do if you keep showing kindness..." The answer is they can cause a great deal of damage, even death, to you or your loved ones. For such a wise emperor & philosopher, it's disappointing & bizarre that he was so naive in this matter.
@@ash8207 I’m not really surprised by his naivety when looking at commodus
Kindness and empathy doesn't necessarily mean placing yourself in a vulnerable position. If nothing else, you can refuse to descend to the level of the toxic person while leaving the situation. For example, this could mean finding a new job or moving to get away from a toxic coworker or neighbor, or in extreme cases calling police or filing a lawsuit. But by exercising compassion, you do two things: first, you keep the respect of the other people around you, and second, you keep a clear conscience for yourself. One would be naive to think we can change the nature of everyone around us. But by having compassion, we retain our inner peace and we avoid worsening conflict as we escape the worst of situations.
Narcissism is such a drag. The most painful thing is a narcissist will not accept their is anything wrong with them and get very offended if told so.
I always stood against people trying to hack their partner's phone, until my cheating narcissist husband gave me every reason to spy on him. I've been suspecting his attitudes lately and I really loved my husband, so I was eager to find out the reason behind his sudden change of attitude. All i did was to share his phone number with (genius-tracker) without touching his phone, they gave me remote access to his Text messages, Whats-app, Facebook, Snap-chat, Skype, Instagram, Twitter, Email and i was able to read both his new and deleted messages. i was hurt when i saw a picture of my husband and his lover. i felt so bad about infidelity. I’m here in Australia and was able to access his phone while he was away cheating in France and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned . He's a genius hacker contacted him to help. You can text/call +1 (601) 287-5528 or reach him on whats-app +1 (724) 323-3252 and also write to via Gmail (geniustracker701). Thank me, later...
If you can show these people kindness and compassion then you really are among the most fortunate people in the world.
I'm a doctor that specializes in radiation poisoning, so my job is literally to deal with toxic people.
So what srratergies do we use to avoid them? Use a Gieger Counter?
Not easy God bless
Lots of people here who stopped watching after Point 1. As if "walk away. Period." is the silver bullet in all situations. Good short-term strategy. See how it works for you when you have to live/work with a toxic person.
Plus you can't always run away.. enduring and dealing with it could be a great skill to learn.
My mother would call me a sociopath and played on my insecurities. She worked in mental health so it would be brought home in a egotistical manner. They have issues with finances in which ive helped but before i struggled and was seen as mentally ill. I believe this person to be toxic. Ive learned ways to create a better mood for myself.
it's really hard when your teachers / professors are toxic towards you due to nothing you possibly did, i really don't know what to do. they disrupt your motivation to study and perform well and make you not want to go to college at all.
Indifference, wonderfully helpful plan guide, NOT easy to achieve but this gives me solid tools to practice.
I disagree with the last option. People take kindness for weakness. Therefore, this is not a good option. I have tried it before and it does not work. This option may work temporarily but people tend to go back to Old habits.
That's on people, not on you, but if you believe kindness is seen as weakness, then that will be to you. Nobody tells you to take it as an option if you are a "beginner" yet.
1000 lies results in Never Trust that A.H. again! NO CONTACT anyhow, anyway. Did I learn, did I Grow Up? YES. Kindnes? It does not work!
Charlito Charles You can be civil with them, but just let them know that you aren’t a carpet
I think in their case, being kind means just not to be unkind. Just stay away!
Being kind or compassionate to toxic people does not work in the vast majority of cases. Most toxic people thrive & take great pleasure in causing pain, misery & suffering. That's the harsh reality. Marcus Aurelius, as wise as he was, got this one wrong..."For what can even the most malicious person do if you keep showing kindness..." The answer is they can cause a great deal of damage, even death, to you or your loved ones. For such a wise emperor & philosopher, it's disappointing & bizarre that he was so naive in this matter.
I’m surprised when I read the comments and replies, it seems most didn’t really listen to this?
I have walked away from certain individuals in my life because of how they were treating me. I wouldn’t do anything to them and if anything i made efforts to say hi to them and just be a nice person. However this individual i walked away from wasn’t doing me any harm but just being a ‘fake friend’. Anyways i feel better now and this video only further helps me in the future ! Thank you
Maybe the most important video I've ever watched. Not necessarily all new information, but the best possible way of putting it all together. Thank you.
People either drain you or inspire you...
Thank you so much for this. I always have to remember that I am not the only one living in pain. That those people who radiate toxicity must be suffering so much on the inside to be so toxic and vile on the outside. Always be kind, it costs nothing.
I cut off a bunch of toxic people last year and this year and I probs will next year too. Hopefully I never see those people again. I can’t stand them and their toxicity and negativity
My favorite way: If toxic people make a really dumb statement: 1. Ask them kindly to repeat the last statement 2. Don't react at all (this is easier if you are doing any kind of task that you can now concentrate on, e.g. eating, drinking, reading..or working if its your boss..but you can still just pull out your phone and start playing a round of tetris :) ) Makes me always feel satisfied.
Love the tetris part 😂😂😂
Absolutely NO CONTACT!! And just pray over the things that try to come against us . prayer is a privilege and so powerful..
I always stood against people trying to hack their partner's phone, until my cheating narcissist husband gave me every reason to spy on him. I've been suspecting his attitudes lately and I really loved my husband, so I was eager to find out the reason behind his sudden change of attitude. All i did was to share his phone number with (genius-tracker) without touching his phone, they gave me remote access to his Text messages, Whats-app, Facebook, Snap-chat, Skype, Instagram, Twitter, Email and i was able to read both his new and deleted messages. i was hurt when i saw a picture of my husband and his lover. i felt so bad about infidelity. I’m here in Australia and was able to access his phone while he was away cheating in France and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned . He's a genius hacker contacted him to help. You can text/call +1 (601) 287-5528 or reach him on whats-app +1 (724) 323-3252 and also write to via Gmail (geniustracker701). Thank me, later...
There is nobody you cant walk away from.
Yourself?
Try telling that to the irs
There might be a benefit in facing it instead of constantly running away when a problem appears.
@@hgzmatt true, but we aren't talking about running at the first sign of a problem. We are talking about toxic people, people that consistently bring negativity into your life with no sign of remorse. These people must be left, because we can't fix them, no matter how many time we try to convince ourselves that we can.
Perhaps and I have physically assisted a P.O.S. out my Door.
People in the comments seem to misunderstand what he means by kindness. He doesn’t mean be nice to toxic people in attempts to get them to change. It’s acknowledging the fact that they must be suffering deeply to be so terrible. It’s the highest form of compassion and love. It takes the most strength to be kind to horrible people. It’s taking that negativity and transmuting it into positivity, which ends the cycle of hurt people hurting other people. Even if that person doesn’t change, you end the cycle of abuse and negativity.
Another way is to think like this: I know my limitations, and I really dont know what the right thing is to say or do together with a toxic person. By thinking like this, you completly detach from any responsibility for the toxic persons behaviour. And if you really want to throw "the shit back in their face" you can ask them : " how am I supposed to act or what am I supposed to say following the way you behave? I dont know it myself but maybe you can tell me" Then the ball they shot at you, are back on their half of the field.
You guys [in the comments] need to restructure what “kindness and compassion” means. Kindness and compassion doesn’t mean “let them do whatever to us”, it means maintaining insight on everyone’s humanity and how our own toxicity has been pardoned by kindness and compassion.
Very good point ❤
Its hard ... people feeling sad or troubled often comes to me .. i listen but when it goes on and on and on for months .. i feel drained ... so I just distance myself.. they dont understand when you listen and try to not talk bout the same old issues.. instead go outdoors .. they cycle around the same ...its so exhausting..
Set boundaries and enforce them. Are they using you? There is only so much a person can take.
Yes walk away!!! Never return!!!
Relieve a person from their own suffering with kindness is BEAUTIFUL 🙏🏽💫
These videos are very soothing to my soul.
Thank you for this. As an older adult now, I am finally beginning to see I have to learn to lasso and control my emotions or I will be miserable for the remainder of my life. There are so many toxic people in the world you can't get through a day without encountering one unless you spend the day alone. Being a compassionate and PASSIONATE person is slowly killing me. I am going to study being stoic instead so I can feel indifference instead of reactionary pain to others callous actions that seem to roll off them like sweat and spill onto my naturally giving, kind nature. I am sick and tired of being used, taken for granted and a door mat.
I feel the same.
Empaths make easy targets for these ppl. Being aware and prepared helps. Walking away is easy for me these days. Life is too short. GL
Karen Kilpatrick: I feel exactly the same way. I wish I had a friend like you..
The central idea and most important word in the movie Interstellar as well as in life: “Detach!” ;)
nah murph was the most important word murph think about it⛩🛎🧩lol
*Take their feedback if not only they say it, but it’s repeated over and over again. Be open minded, however, if they are only dragging you down then you have to spend less time with them or even cut them out IF they are not your family members or someone special. Rather focus on building meaningful relationships!* 🙏
Alex Haneman it always depends on the individual, but ok, I’m assuming that your family is toxic? If that’s the case then I wouldn’t really advice cutting them out of your life because they are still your family, but focus on BUILDING GOOD ONES
"People exist for one another. You can instruct or endure them." Marcus Aurelius.
Thank you so much for this video and definitely helps to deal with difficult people. Kindness and compassion is a key to completely change the situation but most of the time, we are dealing with narcissists. Some of them hide very well. As an empath I always encounter these people and I have done kindness and compassion to them but still, what they only want from you is your constan validation and and praise that you had to "fake" yourself just so you could "vibrate" with them. Some of them have this need that you have to be under them even for an instant until it is happening regularly. That's why I guess the expert thing to do is walk away and feel indifferent, and if it calls for it, confront or fight them (work colleagues). Since these are narcissists, having only binary thinking, it's all about win or lose for them.
I keep telling my wife about your videos since we have to deal with my difficult mother who lives with us. So far the Grey Rock Technique and detachment has worked for me (since walking away isn't an option right now), I hope I will be able to translate your words for my wife so that it works for her as well.
Thank you god for discernment...I pray you find peace and come into your higher self thru God's grace and love
Kindness may work in some cases but from experience, I know, that even no contact and walking away doesn't work. At times you need to stand up for yourself. In this case, you have to find the tool that prevents the situation escalate further, you want to make sure that you are safe, and ultimately eliminate the toxicity for good.
you are right about showing kindness but there are the sorts that will parasitize your kindness, gobble it up and keep behaving the same exact way. Aurelius did not account for the narcissists and psychopaths of the world who gobble up compassion given to them without any regard. This is my burden. How do you deal with and show compassion to someone who is malicious and takes your compassion yet is still aggressive?
I know the feeling, you simply delete them from your life, they are very evil to do evil while you showed your kindness to them. Invest on someone who treats you right. How you doing
You might think it's not fair that they mistreat you and I feel the same but their life is possibly so shitty that they can't do any better. You should pity them if anything.
Compassion is more about understanding their own pains, not letting them walk over you at all True compassion has boundaries, for both your sakes
Life is too short, ignore the bad guys and spend your time with nice and uplifting people ❤
I see a lot of comments saying you should “discard” and “throw away” toxic people. Has anyone considered people become toxic and broken because they have been discarded and abandoned by family, friends, and society all their lives? We live in a entitled society where most only want to see everything happy while denying the existence of others struggles in the world. You cannot fix others or expect them to change but you can learn from their situations to become a more resilient and understanding human being.
Sorry man. It seems that you have not encountered many toxic people In ur life. Kindness towards a toxic person just makes them bold to cross your boundaries again. If you are in a group then kindness can be used a s a strategy to expose how toxic that person is. Most of the times I have noticed that toxic people hang out with other toxic people a lot. Walking away is the correct strategy u mentioned. If u are in a strong state of mind u can use their toxicity to train urself for future encounters with other toxic people. Narcissism is not just skin deep but soul deep. Self grandiosity and complete lack of empathy are its cardinal features. If you have a person like that in ur circle stay away ......all the way or at least have less contact , talk less in their presence and if they are liked by the group then leave the group. Take care man .bye.
Totally agree. I was wondering if this guy has ever been the target of abuse. Compassion for these people is used by them against you...turn the other cheek... only if you want the other cheek to be slapped.
All of that is because you truly care about a toxic person, and he bothers you. Which is understandable, obviously, we all have our boundaries. But if you don't care, you won't have to walk away unless there's no reason to stay anyway.
I take your advice than this video... they don't know the meaning of kindness because they don't have heart to accept such kindness... thank you
@@obeyjesusworldwide8582 yup . Well said. Some of those people are narcissists . They can't feel empathy so they do not care for others much . All they are concerned with is maintaining their grandiose identity. Take care . Thanks for the reply.
@@bandieboo8102 completely agree. Self grandiose , petty and power hungry narcissists are the worst "people" you can come across in life. Take care. Thanks for the reply.
TOXIC PEOPLE MAKE OTHERS LIFE UNHAPPY ALONG WITH THEIR OWN.
What a beautiful lesson, thank u
I have a family member who’s as toxic as ever as they feel justified in crossing boundaries, justifying liberty taking and over talking. Recently I put her in her place when I’d reached my limit of toleration. When she crossed the boundary and lashed at me when I called her out, I used that moment to confront her on her nasty personality traits. I don’t associate with her again
Man good friends are rare to find, let's all be friends and let's get talking on the comment section. How you guys doing and i hope you are enjoying your summer?
thank you for this information it is helpful and very on point about certain people
I gave a toxic friend many chances but in the end I had to cut him off to preserve my sanity
Thank you for all what you doing. Do not stop, please. Continue to change people and change this world. You doing meaningful job!
Dealing effectively with challenging personalities is mentally draining. This video with its reasonable strategies for doing so is a valuable resource I employ daily. I'm much better at this, and getting better all of the time. Thank you.
Awesome work ! Really loving this channel !
The best way is to avoid them if possible. I quit my corporate job to be a freelancer to avoid toxic people. No matter how well you deal with them, it is a drain of your energy.
All the best to you, I too am choosing a freelancing path after finishing my master because I had the luck of being under a narcissistic supervisor, and promise to myself to never, ever allow myself to be manipulated by that kind of wretched being ever again. It is hard, but nothing beats dealing with toxic people and watch your own sanity slowly disappear over time. Corporate world is full of toxic people and office politics, it sucks.
@@bloodmajesty414 agree.
Agree. Sometimes its better to trvel alone in this world than to be with people you found out to be toxic.
You're helping me a lot with a current situation. I'm very thankful and I intend to return that favor.
Pity works well. Realising that they’re miserable, hopeless and sad.
This is one of my fav channels. I’ve gained so much knowledge and confidence from it.
This a truly beautifully explained! Thank you 🙏🏾. Mindfulness is truly powerful!
Thank you for this sir..I'm currently suffering this topic of yours..
Your content adds so much joy to my life, thank you 💖
Thank you for these videos, you've truly been an inspiration today
Thanks. You're offerings make it more tolerable.
Very good video... the hard thing is of course the professional level, or Guru Level. It is so hard to reply in kindness to people who might have been screwing you over....but it is a good lesson for his own ego I guess... Kind and vigilant!
This is a good video. However, I still live with a toxic father and it's hard to ignore him but I have learned not to give a shhh about his comments and bullying (have set boundaries)...I have suffered that coming from him since I was 5. I think being kind is not an option for me!
if i can offer some advice: get out of there as soon as you can!! My father was one of the most loving and responsible parents I could imagine, I have ever met or encountered, he was basically the ideal dad. But he died when I was 15 and my mum lost the plot... eventually she and my step-dad turned into demons and my extended "family" wasn't much better. They are not even human, because they have no humanity. Actually, I think many people of Earth are like that!! Find some humans to replace them! I have cut off 97% of my old family. I am changing my surname, nationality and cultures and moving more than 8000 km away to create a new one. I've tested it and the love there is mind-blowing and effortless. I will thrive once with them. The universe will help and support you if you have the courage to make the move. you can do it! Although I know sometimes people's immediate situation makes this not an option at the present time. Your true family is your soul family and the love is real and bulletproof. Lots of people have this in their karmic journey on Earth at this time... "family" who abuse you are just in your life for a season to teach you spiritual lessons. Real love and your real family is out there, it might just take a bit of time until the season is ripe for you to move into that orchard, far away from the rotten apples. Hang in there!!
This is excellent advice and well worth listening to.
Wonderful ,as always. I am new to stoicism and your videos guide me . Thank you ...
As always, THANK YOU
You don't know how badly I needed this video. Subscribed and excited for more
Thanks for subscribing and welcome!
So true. Since I started watching these info videos by you its easy to spot toxic ppl.
Ive had some troubles recently in my life, but your content has really been changing my outlook, thank you, and keep up the good work🙏
Push through bro and never give up. I hope you are good?
@@grezzer1427 bro I'm doing great now just gotta keep your head up
@@jacobasencio1832 that's good bro make sure you believe in your self and don't let nothing get you down and where are you from?
@@grezzer1427 I live in Florida
Incredible. Thank you, man.
Wow. Just found your channel. Thank you so much for posting. They came at a very appropriate time for me, but lately I'm finding most things do and are already there, it's up to us to absorb them. Thanks so much and take care.
Thank you and welcome!
Thank you!!! Very much this video - other ways than ditching ‘toxic people’. Nameste
Such wisdom, thank you
Thank you. Thank you so much,for this content you make.
Yea, if I were not already subscribed to this channel, this would do it! Thank you, Einzelgänger, yet again. 👍
The last point "responding in kindness" is not always the most practical but where it can be applied is often the best.
You have helped me in many ways in such a short time. Thank You
Thank you I've listened to 3 times and when I'm finished writing this listen to it again thank you
Somehow i feel google is watching me. I just think about toxic friend in my head when i at the kitchen. And then i see this video just pop up at my face
They are monitoring you
%100 tru
Your phone listens to you! Might as well be an Alexa too!
Great content! Thank you.
Amazing video. Amazing channel. Thank you
I like how loving this is.
Thank you for sharing with me the Gift of Indifference. I will cultivate it - Namaste
Thank you I needed your inner peace guidance
you have amazing videos bro, your voice is amazing as well keeps my attention.
Thanks for the compliment Andre!! I appreciate it!
Great video I really need this in my life right now
I like your perspective on 'toxicity.' No useless excessive slander / stigmatizing disorders as negative. props. It really goes to show that the language we use can work wonders not only for others' states, but our own state of mind. TY for your content.
I love the background music and pictures
I think the key on fourth one or kindness is balance between being kind to oneself and others
i only just found your channel and I'm really enjoying your content.
"I don't believe in toxic people" Well, let me introduce you to something called the internet. Good luck
The only channel that actually helps 💯💪