10 Modern Manner Mistakes | Bad Etiquette That KILLS First Impressions

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Video Summary:
1:22 - Making Your Phone More Important Than People
2:22 - Saying Something Online You Wouldn't Say In Person
3:18 - Not Practicing Good Manners At Home
4:02 - Not Being Punctual
4:47 - Not Having Situational Awareness
5:33 - Not Showing Respect
6:27 - Constantly Interrupting
7:05 - Overusing Foul Language
8:00 - Having No Patience
8:53 - Not Making Introductions
9:29 - Bonus: Not Even Trying
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  • www.realmenrealstyle.com/modern-manner-mistakes/ - Click here to read the article - 10 Modern Manner Mistakes *WATCH NEXT: 10 Tips To ALWAYS Walk with Confidence (Even If Nervous)* - kzhead.info/sun/ip2Doa6GpIuGjGg/bejne.html Are you ready to up your style? Click here for the BEST style course on the planet! thestylesystem.com/?KZhead Video Summary: 1:22 - Making Your Phone More Important Than People 2:22 - Saying Something Online You Wouldn't Say In Person 3:18 - Not Practicing Good Manners At Home 4:02 - Not Being Punctual 4:47 - Not Having Situational Awareness 5:33 - Not Showing Respect 6:27 - Constantly Interrupting 7:05 - Overusing Foul Language 8:00 - Having No Patience 8:53 - Not Making Introductions 9:29 - Bonus: Not Even Trying

    @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
    • I thought i was first.! The phone is a serious issue, i always have my phone in my pocket when i'm out interacting with people.

      @leosedf@leosedf7 жыл бұрын
    • leosedf It definitely is! Phones were invented to bridge the gap on distance with friends and family, not the other way around!

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
    • Real Men Real Style Hey Antonio, thank you for this video! I like each and every one of the points you brought up and I know I can improve on a lot of them. One question that does remain is a tiny bit embarrassing though. English is not my mother tongue, and I've learn most of it through KZhead. The result of that is that I quite simply don't know many alternatives for the *** words... Could you maybe give us some? Keep up the good work, inspiring and teaching men to become real men. ;)

      @HarryYese@HarryYese7 жыл бұрын
    • Your Gold Play Button is getting near!

      @BigDirtyBasterd@BigDirtyBasterd7 жыл бұрын
    • Real Men Real Style Keep preaching the gospel brother.... next time put Consistent.. We all need that. Good video. Your doing society a huge favor. God bless.

      @Ah_Trevah@Ah_Trevah7 жыл бұрын
  • good manners should be taught from childhood

    @johnjames218@johnjames2187 жыл бұрын
    • tPaperBombBomba Ꝏ Shh everybody, I think it's trying to communicate

      @nonachyourbusiness1164@nonachyourbusiness11647 жыл бұрын
    • not everybody have loving parents to baby sit em through out life.

      @dantegoat8568@dantegoat85687 жыл бұрын
    • absolutely

      @thelastoddman901@thelastoddman9017 жыл бұрын
    • John James I'm glad my parent taught me manners and etiquette when I was a child!

      @nathanielsocash1258@nathanielsocash12587 жыл бұрын
    • It's a sad thing the majority of Americans aren't given that luxury

      @TheBananaBoba@TheBananaBoba7 жыл бұрын
  • You forgot one more modern manner which happens quite often in today's society, completely take off your earphones when you're talking to someone

    @alienware409@alienware4097 жыл бұрын
    • The Moe on the flip side, don't talk to people who have earphones on

      @nonachyourbusiness1164@nonachyourbusiness11647 жыл бұрын
    • The Moe on the flip side, don't talk to people who have earphones on

      @nonachyourbusiness1164@nonachyourbusiness11647 жыл бұрын
    • Non'AchYourbusiness I agree but maybe someone has to tell someone else something important. That person is putting themselves out there to tell you something, its a bit disrespectful to not pay full attention to someone like that.

      @nicolek8971@nicolek89717 жыл бұрын
    • This +1!, i always have my earphones on, but when I am getting a coffee, making payment at the cashier. I usually take off my earphones or at least one side. Just feel that it's a bit rude having it, but frens thought this is weird :/

      @heeyuanong1135@heeyuanong11357 жыл бұрын
    • The Moe ; yes! And I would also add to remove or at least flip up your sunglasses, even for just a few seconds, when meeting someone. Let them see your eyes! Very important when confronted, or just talking to police for any reason.

      @akeeperofoddknowledge4956@akeeperofoddknowledge49567 жыл бұрын
  • When you stop learning , you get left behind . Never stop educating yourself

    @elisabethhamilton1048@elisabethhamilton10482 жыл бұрын
    • Being successful don’t happen by magic Success is dependent on the action or steps you take to achieve it. Show me a man who doesn't have an investment and I will tell you how soon he'll go broke Investment is building a safe haven for the future: with the right choice of investment that has at least 1% minimum risk and with an Expert guidance, profit and interest should be 💯 guaranteed.

      @elisabethhamilton1048@elisabethhamilton10482 жыл бұрын
    • @@elisabethhamilton1048 According to the good book ( the holy Bible) A wise man leaves an inheritance for his children and children's children my advise is "if you want to grow a generational wealth, you will have to hold a stock or a crypto'

      @eduardomarquee551@eduardomarquee5512 жыл бұрын
    • @Tran Nguyen True!! NOBODY BECOMES A MILLIONAIRE OR BILLIONAIRE BY WORKING FOR OTHERS AND DEPENDING ON THEM, GOOD INVESTMENT BRINGS MILLIONS OF DOLLARS AND CONSISTENCY BRINGS BILLIONS. THE MARKET IS ALL ABOUT CRYPTO NOW YOU MIGHT WANT TO LOOK INTO IT

      @jessicaallen6874@jessicaallen68742 жыл бұрын
    • @@eduardomarquee551 True, there is never any culture of wealth gathering or wealth creation to keep multiplying your finance that lack an investment value. This means, if you have to plan you must be an investor. that's why Investing in crypto stands to be the best

      @annienolen8175@annienolen81752 жыл бұрын
    • @@eduardomarquee551 Nice!! The only credible law of increase is investment because money not invested has no future. I make huge profits on my crypto investment since i started trading fx with Mr Kelvin Maorgan, his trading strategies are top notch.

      @antoniohandel8332@antoniohandel83322 жыл бұрын
  • Hi Antonio, I would like to add a few: 1. Do not listen to respond, listen to understand. 2. Listen more then you talk (accept for when your opinion is asked for of course) 3. Ask, ask, ask. People, at least from my view, now a days do things without asking. For example giving your opinion when its not asked for. Not to say you always have to be asked first. But it can come over very pushy in some ways. Ask if you can give somebody a tip instead of just throwing it out there. I think its just more polite that way. 4. Keep eye contact, very important to me. 5. Always be honest, also when its not pretty to be honest. It shows character. Honesty is the most important thing to me. Great video, I hope all is good in Ukraine.

    @tntgamerdotnl@tntgamerdotnl7 жыл бұрын
    • Great list! Cheers Ukraine.

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
    • Fun Party Thats great to hear! You are welcome :)

      @tntgamerdotnl@tntgamerdotnl7 жыл бұрын
    • 6. Sometimes nod and say something in the line of : "oh, I see! So you're actually saying ...." and repeat and perhaps even rephrase. It makes you a better listener.

      @kenninast@kenninast6 жыл бұрын
    • really like that you said listen more than you talk!

      @andyskydream4667@andyskydream46675 жыл бұрын
  • I have walk out on people too involved with their phone

    @AdrianJNyaoi@AdrianJNyaoi7 жыл бұрын
    • Adrian J Nyaoi can't really blame you, it comes off as neglection and disrespectful to me.

      @DarthVader-ib7tl@DarthVader-ib7tl7 жыл бұрын
    • Darth Vader You tortured your own daughter the first time you met her and now she's dead.

      @thisismagacountry1318@thisismagacountry13187 жыл бұрын
    • Rumpa Stiltskin you're a shit person with crap humour. but in the interests of this video's message I respect you for that and hope you enjoy your day friend

      @danm8004@danm80047 жыл бұрын
    • Dan Menzies Star Wars humor,...Too Soon?

      @thisismagacountry1318@thisismagacountry13187 жыл бұрын
    • Verification is by Google Plus, not KZhead. The verification is carried over to all Google product, in this case KZhead

      @AdrianJNyaoi@AdrianJNyaoi7 жыл бұрын
  • My Dad always said good manners are free. You are absolutely correct that manners are all about respecting others. We definitely need more of that today.

    @mikemantho9426@mikemantho94264 жыл бұрын
  • Successful people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time.

    @raphaeldouglas9361@raphaeldouglas93612 жыл бұрын
    • Yeah! I agree with you sir.

      @sanchezabaror4578@sanchezabaror45782 жыл бұрын
    • If you want to be successful have the mindset of the rich, spend less and invest More. Don't give up your dreams.

      @sanchezabaror4578@sanchezabaror45782 жыл бұрын
    • @@sanchezabaror4578 People come here with the aim of chasing money more than knowledge and that will damage your progress, trust me. Chase knowledge first and I promise! The money will follow you just like it's following some of us now.

      @ngothingocthuc3138@ngothingocthuc31382 жыл бұрын
    • @@ngothingocthuc3138 That's very correct sir!! And that is why most of them end up losing they money to scammers.

      @jietuan3744@jietuan37442 жыл бұрын
    • Don't be in a haste to invest. Know what and who you are investing to and be sure that the person will deliver before investing.

      @jietuan3744@jietuan37442 жыл бұрын
  • Key word here is empathy... Empathy is everything when it comes to interaction with people. Great video Antonio!

    @MightyMouseESP@MightyMouseESP7 жыл бұрын
    • Mighty Mouse I could not agree more! Spot on!

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
  • You have addressed a very important issue for modern men. Sadly, this is not taught in our schools and some homes.

    @Fresno1199@Fresno11997 жыл бұрын
    • Fresno1199 its just self taught man it aint rocket science

      @banco3039@banco30397 жыл бұрын
  • People who chew with their mouth open infurate me.

    @pesiuber@pesiuber7 жыл бұрын
    • pesiuber they might have allergies and they can't breathe otherwise

      @grease112@grease1127 жыл бұрын
    • *infuriate

      @pesiuber@pesiuber7 жыл бұрын
    • pesiuber hello

      @nbaxiv7110@nbaxiv71107 жыл бұрын
    • pesiuber then dont watch them eat 😂

      @mauriciosalas3415@mauriciosalas34156 жыл бұрын
    • So take a Claritin, use Flonase, and or use a saline wash.

      @Lengsel7@Lengsel76 жыл бұрын
  • Hello, Antonio. I am a woman and practice every single thing you've mentioned in this video, most men around me don't. Sadly, people have lost respect for one another in today's society. While out at the market today, in my way outside a store (while holding lots of grocery bags) I held the door open for the woman coming out behind me... not only did she not say thank you, but didn't even have the curtesy to acknowledge the fact that I held the door for her. Nevertheless, I'd do it all over again because I want to believe that all humanity isn't yet lost.

    @MN-re9oh@MN-re9oh7 жыл бұрын
  • Fathers need to instill into their kids at an early age. The responsibility of being a "Real Man".

    @grafiek@grafiek7 жыл бұрын
    • I'm with you!

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
    • grafiek please tell me what that is, because something tells me you cannot.

      @zpgJiggleBilly@zpgJiggleBilly7 жыл бұрын
    • Real Men Real Style plz reply it would make my day 😖👍🏽

      @akonemanaba4183@akonemanaba41837 жыл бұрын
    • Basic manners John

      @grafiek@grafiek7 жыл бұрын
    • Adding to a Real Man, is a REAL 'GENTLEMAN'. IT IS POSSIBLE to BE BOTH IN ONE MAN.

      @DesertlizzyThe@DesertlizzyThe7 жыл бұрын
  • I like how you differentiate between good manners and etiquette. Many people do not see the difference and decide to give up on both immediately. Thank you for this great material!

    @Etienne938@Etienne9387 жыл бұрын
  • Nearly at that million mark Antonio!

    @BenArthur@BenArthur7 жыл бұрын
    • 30k to go!

      @JohnControl@JohnControl7 жыл бұрын
    • Ben!

      @jackfinlayevans3428@jackfinlayevans34287 жыл бұрын
    • EveryMan Rumor has it he deletes his channel at one milyawns. Time will tell.

      @ChaosFragrances@ChaosFragrances7 жыл бұрын
    • EveryMan I unsubscribed then subscribed so that I could be 1,000,000 subscriber.

      @nick60444@nick604447 жыл бұрын
    • so he got 30k sub a day? damn that's fast. it's a million now

      @kahfibonboy@kahfibonboy7 жыл бұрын
  • The important rule that I learned (thank goodness) when I was 18 and just finishing high school: PRAISE IN PUBLIC, COMPLAIN IN PRIVATE. And even if someone is really messing up and they come to the realization that they are messing up, allow them to save face.

    @IvarsBezdechi@IvarsBezdechi7 жыл бұрын
  • I love how you bring back Classiness which sadly is not fashionable nowadays !!

    @raniatahoun568@raniatahoun5687 жыл бұрын
  • person exiting a room has the right of way.

    @ampecsu@ampecsu7 жыл бұрын
    • ampecsu Tell that to people trying to get into a train or bus

      @BC-je4ym@BC-je4ym7 жыл бұрын
    • And you always walk on the right. For some reason people love to bump into me!

      @MegaGasek@MegaGasek7 жыл бұрын
    • elevators annoy me...

      @ampecsu@ampecsu7 жыл бұрын
    • There should be an aisle on elevators to move to the rear. The 1st come, get 1st serve on exiting.

      @DesertlizzyThe@DesertlizzyThe7 жыл бұрын
    • Dee Johnson-Ewing but not everyone is getting on and off of the same floor

      @ampecsu@ampecsu7 жыл бұрын
  • Brilliant video! "Manners Maketh Man" or Chivalry is a sign of Genuine Class ... I heard once that; "the Definition of a Gentleman, is someone who makes the people around him feel comfortable" - and when I say "class" I'm not referring to pretentious snobbery; I mean the "Golden Rule" or treat others the way you want them to treat you, that's what chivalry is all about ....

    @claytosrepublic7858@claytosrepublic78587 жыл бұрын
    • Well said, Claytos.

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
  • I'm impressed. You actually backed up why people should have good manners with arguments. I like that and I'll try to be less of a pain from now on. Thank you.

    @eric1766@eric17667 жыл бұрын
  • Absolutely fantastic video, Antonio. So many people miss out on things like this. As a second year university student, everyone I meet fails to do these simple things. Loved the video, man - keep it up!

    @Sam-um2wc@Sam-um2wc7 жыл бұрын
  • I once dated a girl where all she did on our dates was look on her phone, needless to say it was irritating.

    @ericfisher8732@ericfisher87327 жыл бұрын
    • I know, right?

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
    • She wasn’t interested...

      @marksuciu3975@marksuciu39756 жыл бұрын
    • @@marksuciu3975 If she were a lady she would still not be on her phone, but been civil and courteous for the time she was on the date.

      @greenrules4638@greenrules46385 жыл бұрын
    • I hope that by “once dated” you mean that you immediately recognized she didn’t deserve a second date 😂

      @arkadiuszrogala1359@arkadiuszrogala13593 жыл бұрын
    • Eric Fisher you shut up .fuck in why you didn't talked first you know I m introvert version

      @dilkumarirai8100@dilkumarirai81002 жыл бұрын
  • As I watched the video, I realised I could relate to all of the manners mistakes mentioned and also how much I had improved over time. I still think there are some points I'm yet to work on. Great video. Thanks, Antonio.

    @username5861@username58616 жыл бұрын
  • It's real good to hear that I'm doing something right. All of these things come naturally to me. Like, it's practically force of habit, my personality. But, hearing it from a professional makes me feel professional. Thanks.

    @princesworld4559@princesworld45597 жыл бұрын
  • Mr. Antonio, this is a nice video. All your videos are crisp, to the point and very watchable. Keep up the good work! Thank you!

    @RaviSharma-gd1jw@RaviSharma-gd1jw4 жыл бұрын
  • Cheers from India!

    @areeb001@areeb0017 жыл бұрын
    • Areeb Akhtar I'm still here in Ukraine so cheers from Ukraine! :)

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
    • Real Men Real Style cheers from India, thanks for the information

      @arvindgopalakrishna4607@arvindgopalakrishna46077 жыл бұрын
    • Cheers from Belarus! stay safe, Antonio!)

      @sergeinedbalski9161@sergeinedbalski91617 жыл бұрын
  • You make a great point, regarding cellphones, and punctuality. It is especially critical to stay off you're cellphone, and be on time, when in the dating world. When you're going on a date, show up on time; perhaps even a little bit early, and when you're actually on your date, stay off your cellphone, and give your date your full attention.

    @thecowboy9698@thecowboy96987 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you...looking forward to more like this

    @harishankar11@harishankar117 жыл бұрын
  • Names and intros go hand in hand!! If you refer to people by their name, then you're more likely to remember it and this goes together VERY well with making introductions. Especially if it's a girl, or someone you want to like you, and you see them standing alone and you're in a circle of people. Be the kind of person who walks over and says: "Hi, you should join us; I'll introduce you to everyone." This demonstrates 2 things: 1) Strength. That you have influence over a group of people. They are willing to let someone new into their circle because you say so. 2) Not selfish. That person is going to feel safe with you, and feel like they have a stronger connection with you then all the other people in that room because you saved them from a potentially akward situation. Noone likes being in a room where they don't know anyone; it's boring, it's akward, and you feel out of place. If you can rescue someone from that, you'll appear to be strong, but also generous in their eyes. Coming across as strong AND generous is hard to pull off, and this is the perfect situation to show that person you can be both.

    @SneakyPeteLegna@SneakyPeteLegna7 жыл бұрын
  • As a great movie once said: "Manners Maketh Man"

    @j.dixelius@j.dixelius6 жыл бұрын
  • I've found a lot of value in this video. I just subscribed to this channel (along with Alpha M, the best two channels for gentlemen). I'm 34 years old, and still learning manners (I think the learning process in this matter never ends). Thank you for the great work.

    @sebabuzo8162@sebabuzo81627 жыл бұрын
  • This is a must watch video to start a new year!

    @hadiwaie3811@hadiwaie38117 жыл бұрын
  • Love this video. Introductions are something I've always struggled with. You should do a video on restaurant/dinner party etiquette. Stuff like bringing a bottle of wine when someone invites you for dinner, complimenting the cooking from the host, putting the cloth in your lap when you sit down at a restaurant. I've noticed this is lost on so many people.

    @brianotoole8666@brianotoole86667 жыл бұрын
  • One of the most underated youtuber . Sir you are just amazing . 👍

    @fasiuddiin@fasiuddiin7 жыл бұрын
  • I think you helped me get a new job today. I've been watching your videos an taking your advice. I dressed nicely to the interview yesterday and just got a callback!

    @lionlocVanDwellington@lionlocVanDwellington7 жыл бұрын
  • Nice. I appreciate the description. It really helps.

    @TheGlassbro@TheGlassbro7 жыл бұрын
  • Having situational awareness is actually a sign of leadership because you've managed the skill to observe problems and solve them by taking action.

    @JackNapi3r@JackNapi3r7 жыл бұрын
    • Ignoring this shows that you lack the courage to act or respond because you are uncertain whether your action will solve the problem.

      @JackNapi3r@JackNapi3r7 жыл бұрын
  • I've never thought of situational awareness as "manners" exactly. Interesting thought.

    @patrickhodson8715@patrickhodson87157 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you so much .The tips are really helpful .

    @tarunkumar2731@tarunkumar27317 жыл бұрын
  • I really appreciate the work you put into these videos. Thank you!

    @splitu238@splitu2387 жыл бұрын
  • social anxiety makes it a bit challenging

    @WeedmanSmokes805@WeedmanSmokes8057 жыл бұрын
    • f*ckers in school telling me hang in there bud we got to be thankful relative to others in way worse situations, one love things get better.

      @WeedmanSmokes805@WeedmanSmokes8057 жыл бұрын
    • You good man?

      @reganreynolds6148@reganreynolds61484 жыл бұрын
    • I didn't have good social skills at first but now during quarantine it's even worse i feel you man

      @abubakralbaghdadi6649@abubakralbaghdadi66493 жыл бұрын
    • @@reganreynolds6148 yes, thank you for asking, it’s getting better very slowly lol. Thanks again for your concern, god bless 🙏🏼

      @WeedmanSmokes805@WeedmanSmokes8053 жыл бұрын
    • @@abubakralbaghdadi6649 its not hard. its really just practice, and accept the awkwardness.

      @cyrolast5332@cyrolast53322 жыл бұрын
  • Manners transforms man into gentleman

    @kartikg.kartikg@kartikg.kartikg7 жыл бұрын
    • For sure!

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
    • It is a pleasure with a man that has good manners; ask any woman.

      @Lughnerson@Lughnerson5 жыл бұрын
  • Great job, Antonio! Excellent presentation.

    @MichaelPerez-kk1us@MichaelPerez-kk1us7 жыл бұрын
  • A very respectful and humanly sensible channel..great job!

    @kimberlypatton8473@kimberlypatton84737 жыл бұрын
  • Good stuff

    @PeteCorp@PeteCorp4 жыл бұрын
  • Great video! I totally agree with you on multiple points, especially the impact that cell phones have on common courtesy. It's funny, I read an article recently about how not putting exclamation points at the end of sentences is becoming poor etiquette which is absurd. A couple simple modern manner mistakes are avoiding eye contact, fidgeting and not specifically responding to what people are talking about. I only have two issues with the video... 1.You should've ironed that sweatshirt before making the video :-) 2. The wife's ring was on the wrong finger.

    @jsphchesspeace@jsphchesspeace6 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you so much for taking the time out to create and present this video, it has helped me a lot.

    @knowledgemuhammad7609@knowledgemuhammad76097 ай бұрын
  • Ever since I have been watching your videos I feel more knowledgeable and organized. I have achieved so much its a blessing and its really pays of to be kind not sometimes but always. I like how you make serious eyes contact on all your videos and speak with so much energy. Yours Thankfully, South Africa

    @motivatedbeyondinfinity_active@motivatedbeyondinfinity_active5 жыл бұрын
  • Congratulations on 1 000 000 subscribers Antonio!!

    @JohnControl@JohnControl7 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks!

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
  • Beautiful video! There's a symptom in big cities: some people pretend to be busy to self-indulge in self-importance. #disgusting

    @KenRuan@KenRuan7 жыл бұрын
  • thank u for taking the time I definitely need to take more then a few of these on board 🐻

    @toadinthehole8085@toadinthehole80857 жыл бұрын
  • Love your content man! Awesome job

    @ezequielrivera2842@ezequielrivera28425 жыл бұрын
  • A person that's not honest really bugs me.But the key to being honest and people liking you is having social tact

    @rastaking9547@rastaking95477 жыл бұрын
  • Great info! Good Topic. Make some more on that one.

    @tonyludwig@tonyludwig7 жыл бұрын
    • Noted!

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
    • +Real Men Real Style Hey Anntonio next time make a video on how to iron dress shirts and trousers so that they have the proper creases and also how to maintain them

      @brnzetiger6562@brnzetiger65627 жыл бұрын
  • The introductions one is so true! The number of times I've met people through mutual friends and not been introduced..

    @NOSHEDMANTIS@NOSHEDMANTIS7 жыл бұрын
  • It is good to hear all these ten points!

    @cornucopiahouse4204@cornucopiahouse42045 жыл бұрын
  • I just had a conversation today with someone who said people who curse sound unsophisticated. I don't know if it's my Italian family or being from Brooklyn or working a lot of blue collar jobs in my life but I always felt that cursing was another way to express yourself. I don't like negativity or hate talk but cursing is just words to me. I guess i need to clean up my fucking mouth. lol.

    @AndrewAttard78@AndrewAttard787 жыл бұрын
    • Andrew Attard Well, I don't know man. Just don't curse in public, because that is fucking disgusting.

      @attiladobo6786@attiladobo67867 жыл бұрын
    • In my experience, unless your curse words are AIMED at a person for no reason, especially at who you're talking with, that's a problem. If you go out of your way to curse and it just sounds unnatural, that's a problem. Most other cursing is usually not, especially with people who have some life experience. Most of these people who say cursing makes you a bad person or something along those lines usually have A LOT of rules like these. "You stand a certain way? You're bad" "You answer my questions? That's talking back" "You look into my eyes? That's disrespectful lower your gaze". Best to ignore these people. And the last one is from my own personal experience lol

      @writbanalim2715@writbanalim27157 жыл бұрын
    • Andrew Attard It depends on who you are speaking to. I will swear when talking with work colleagues casually out in the field, but never in the office. I will swear when having a few beers with the boys, but not if we are walking down the street. I will swear while talking to my brothers, but not when speaking to anyone else in my family. I will never swear while speaking to strangers or aquaintances. I cant stand people who swaer no stop no matter where they are

      @Nebs1@Nebs17 жыл бұрын
    • I avoid frequent swearers. They make me feel uncomfortable. I basically have the same feelings about the person as if they were farting or saying something racist. If they were a customer I would talk to them less. If they were a supplier I would keep my interations brief and quietly look for another supplier. I once entered a room at work where a conversation was going on. The swearing was especially bad, but the subject of the conversation was casual, like fishing, sports, or whatever. Not religion or politics. No one was angry. I started tallying the swear words per minute. 21 swear words per minute. I left the room and came back an hour later to do what I needed to do. Sometimes a waiter or restaurant manager will come over to our group of coworkers to schmooze when we are at lunch and pepper the the conversation with word farts (curse words) and it has the opposite of its intended effect and it gets very awkward and we just want them to leave. If a salesman that is prone to swearing offers to take my wife and I out to dinner, I will always decline. I don't want my wife mad at me for putting her through that. It's very unprofessional. Just be aware that for some people it is as off putting as being handed a dog turd.

      @accudave@accudave7 жыл бұрын
    • Dave Carton​ is it a religious or just upraising? I'm offended when people are abused, corporate greed, selfishness, human rights violations, violence etc. I like that we live in a country where people are allowed to express themselves and I think swearing is a part of your identity if you want it to be. I think it's so minor compared to the real problems in the world. I don't get what you're saying at all.

      @AndrewAttard78@AndrewAttard787 жыл бұрын
  • LOL I love the intro to this video 😆😆😆😆😆😆

    @itumblers@itumblers7 жыл бұрын
    • itumblers haha!

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
    • Gads, How I have seen that occur with men. I don't care if you wear hobo clothes, jeans, boots are what! No Public snot picks, OK?

      @DesertlizzyThe@DesertlizzyThe7 жыл бұрын
  • Great video thank you for sharing it. God bless you

    @juergenedgarmauriciooberfr2745@juergenedgarmauriciooberfr27457 жыл бұрын
  • Simply a wonderful and well-informed and important video.

    @SuperDibbya@SuperDibbya7 жыл бұрын
  • I would probably use "A lack of vocabulary" over "A lack of education". I met many bright minds throughout University that swore a lot during our conversations. I also agree so much with your bonus point. I travelled a lot during my youth and the locals were always super nice and kind to me. People going out of their way to help me, while a lot of my friends were met with cold shoulders or shunned away. I always smiled at everyone I interacted with, engaged in conversations despite language barriers and I tried to be genuinely nice. Because of that people were so nice to me. My friends however used to look down upon others. Didn't show them respect and were extremely rude. So their experiences were very different from mine. This even happened in our home country. Being nice to the waiters and other workers makes them treat you a lot better.

    @utah123ify@utah123ify7 жыл бұрын
  • congrats on a million maan!

    @ronjoseph8334@ronjoseph83347 жыл бұрын
    • Thanks, man! :)

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
    • You deserve it :)

      @Jabbawokeez4@Jabbawokeez47 жыл бұрын
  • This has been a very helpful video. Thank you.

    @bulgarianamerican7039@bulgarianamerican70394 жыл бұрын
  • thank you. Very helpful information.

    @wesleyblackelk2987@wesleyblackelk29872 жыл бұрын
  • 10 tips about being good father, might be nice for some men

    @user-di6rw5yf8y@user-di6rw5yf8y7 жыл бұрын
    • АРКАДИЙ АНТ And women.

      @vochyapingcarwat1196@vochyapingcarwat11967 жыл бұрын
  • As a women I have to say that these manners and etiquette should be adopted by everybody, regardless of sex.

    @siaworld@siaworld7 жыл бұрын
    • siaworld *real men, real style*

      @myevilangelofdeath@myevilangelofdeath6 жыл бұрын
    • agreed

      @ivanramos394@ivanramos3945 жыл бұрын
  • Great! People need to listen to these advices. I'm going to share the video right now.

    @franfleck@franfleck7 жыл бұрын
  • Awesome work on putting up the video, I admire the way you showcase your points.. Simple and straightforward

    @nityamodha97@nityamodha977 жыл бұрын
  • The beginning of the video is so hilarious! 😂 And I really hate people who pick their nose in public and who are constantly on their phones!!

    @RaevFairwiz@RaevFairwiz7 жыл бұрын
  • Working while sick ensures that A it will take longer for you to get well B potentially everyone is exposed to what you have. Dont,just dont. Stay home, get some rest.

    @alexandert696@alexandert6966 жыл бұрын
    • I agree. One problem: I don't work, I don't get paid. I haven't had a job that provides sick days in 20 years. I can't afford to take a day off unless I'm half dead.

      @tdawg713@tdawg7134 жыл бұрын
    • T Dawg try and leverage above arguments to negotiate sick days. Can't hurt to try.

      @youandijmh7998@youandijmh79984 жыл бұрын
  • hello Antonio thank you for sharing your knowledge

    @amineiklil3579@amineiklil35796 жыл бұрын
  • fantastic video. thank you for helping us prove a better man.

    @farmhouse327@farmhouse3277 жыл бұрын
  • I'd add keeping appropriate eye contact when speaking with someone.

    @brianhouchen2459@brianhouchen24597 жыл бұрын
    • Agreed!

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
  • I'm from India.. thanks for making nice videos!

    @shashendrapauranik7643@shashendrapauranik76437 жыл бұрын
  • Absolutely well-said video, Antonio! Good to see being generally respectful is still looked as a good thing. Realised I am lucky to have well-mannered buddies and soulmate. Keep making such carefully structured and informative videos. (Sorry for mistakes, not English or American)

    @GuyIncognit@GuyIncognit7 жыл бұрын
  • Great vid, thank you. Talking over another person in conversation could fall under having patience, but it’s definitely a bad trait to have.

    @leonnivram61@leonnivram615 жыл бұрын
  • How about speaking loudly in a public places? (mights fall under etiquette.)

    @MrMaz111@MrMaz1117 жыл бұрын
    • I'd say so. In many Hispanic cultures it is quite normal to speak loudly while in Europe that is seen as offputting. It really depends. I find I speak loudly with friends but when I'm at work my tone is lowered considerably when I talk to customers as I dont want to come off as disrespectful or pushy

      @lexiisalicea7726@lexiisalicea77265 жыл бұрын
  • *Talking with colleague about weather* (Wife calls) -George! The baby is coming! We need to go to the hosp... *Interrupts* -Sorry, I can't talk now. *hangs up*

    @sanderostvold@sanderostvold7 жыл бұрын
    • The price- Pewdiepie dont show the world your stupidity!!!!

      @sankarehamadoun1720@sankarehamadoun17206 жыл бұрын
  • This video hits everything on the right note! Wonderful work as always, Antonio!

    @AjanKan@AjanKan6 жыл бұрын
  • Excellent advice... Thanks for sharing this.

    @Robylazarus@Robylazarus7 жыл бұрын
  • my friend is lefty and can he wear watch on his right hand because whenever he will do anything like writing or anything else that watch can be stratched

    @vishiik3496@vishiik34967 жыл бұрын
    • Vishal K I'm right handed and wear it on my right hand, it's more convenient

      @therealwig9662@therealwig96627 жыл бұрын
    • Vishal K I'm righty an I wear my watch on the right to cover up a wrist tattoo I got when I was 17.

      @lionlocVanDwellington@lionlocVanDwellington7 жыл бұрын
    • Vishii K that's a good point, when seated at a conference or dining table, I always work to have others sit to my right, this way we are not bumping elbows whilst eating or writing.

      @valerief1231@valerief12317 жыл бұрын
  • Antonio, this was a really great video. Excellent tips to be more human and to go back to basic respect for other people. Environmental awarenness tip is just brilliant. Thank you my friend. Keep going and enjoy life and family. =)

    @marcoarriagadadiaz5642@marcoarriagadadiaz56427 жыл бұрын
    • Marco Arriagada Díaz Thanks Marco!

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
  • You're doing a great job. keep it up.

    @pLaNaHeAdGh@pLaNaHeAdGh7 жыл бұрын
  • absolutely well said..a wonderful video..you are really a great guy

    @pushpulfernandes183@pushpulfernandes1837 жыл бұрын
  • can you make a video about dressing better in highschool without being the weird kid in a suit

    @bobbyjensen3627@bobbyjensen36277 жыл бұрын
    • BE WEIRD We are all weird why are you acting normal? Actual "" normal "" people are extremely rare

      @0s0sXD@0s0sXD7 жыл бұрын
    • Bobby Jensen dress nice in casual clothes. No need for a suit in high school.

      @Finkardop@Finkardop7 жыл бұрын
    • perhaps a button down shirt, jeans and a belt.

      @HockeyCrab@HockeyCrab7 жыл бұрын
    • wear casual clothes and just make sure it fits u right... just dont wear a suit or youll look like a douche

      @banco3039@banco30397 жыл бұрын
    • Lol. Your replies made me laugh. Keep in mind whatever is in style now is going to be precieved as stupid in about a decade (Just look up '90s, '80s, or '70s fashion. What freaks!!) but trendy is not the same as stylish. If you take time to acknowledge the science of dressing (yes there is a science to it) and clad yourself in a way that expresses confidence AND self-respect you will always look good.

      @MelodyAMc14@MelodyAMc147 жыл бұрын
  • 7:20 anyone know what the bottom right word stands for?.. im genuinely curious

    @fuckinmoron3230@fuckinmoron32307 жыл бұрын
    • WURLLL STAHHH the only word that comes to my mind is genitals, which isn't bad at all

      @megaQpa1@megaQpa17 жыл бұрын
    • god damn

      @explosionsandstuff7787@explosionsandstuff77877 жыл бұрын
    • Well how the fuck is goddamn swearing God fucking damn

      @writbanalim2715@writbanalim27157 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you so much for this great content! I hope you will continue delivering them.

    @GUARDIANPRINCE44@GUARDIANPRINCE447 жыл бұрын
  • I have been subscribing your channel for a couple of years. This is the best!

    @daimhafizy@daimhafizy6 жыл бұрын
  • I would add not being confident in your own shoes. I see young men often walk, talk and act like they weren't confident with who they were, which often results in some awkward situations.

    @corpse666@corpse6667 жыл бұрын
    • This is great insight Ted! Confidence, if balanced right, can really help us interact with people more comfortably if the situation calls for it.

      @RealMenRealStyle@RealMenRealStyle7 жыл бұрын
    • Real Men Real Style great video, really helpful. I've seen several of your videos.

      @keithmartin1328@keithmartin13287 жыл бұрын
    • Well how can you be confident If you're constantly bombarded by the media with people who are much better in pretty much any aspect of life. A society which tells you you can be anything is also a society with a high status anxiety.

      @hakusansaku8800@hakusansaku88007 жыл бұрын
    • Another's success should be inspirational not deflating. Instead of saying "they're so much better than I'll ever be", say "one day I'll be just as good as them". ;)

      @PongoXBongo@PongoXBongo7 жыл бұрын
    • Being in-confidant isn't a bad habit you can just drop, and has many layers.

      @carollollol@carollollol7 жыл бұрын
  • My brother is on his phone like nonstop. I can't talk to him because he won't be paying attention. So annoying and rude.

    @austinhernandez2716@austinhernandez27167 жыл бұрын
  • Brilliant, thank you!!!

    @jenettestevens503@jenettestevens5037 жыл бұрын
  • thanks, informative.. cheers !

    @Kunal_Jaiswal001@Kunal_Jaiswal0016 жыл бұрын
  • Another point is not speaking a language not understood by a third party in a group. If all understand one particular language, then speak that language so that it does not isolate an individual in a group.

    @MonstersOfTheUniverse@MonstersOfTheUniverse6 жыл бұрын
    • burble74 At my job they always do that I don't say anything but I be mad asf

      @ichoosemysanity6467@ichoosemysanity64675 жыл бұрын
  • what if I have a bad habit and don't know it?

    @julianalvarez879@julianalvarez8797 жыл бұрын
    • Julián Álvarez ask a trusted person about it; a brother or sister perhaps.

      @katzhunter4473@katzhunter44737 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you Antonio for this educational video.!

    @johnpaullenmac7827@johnpaullenmac78275 жыл бұрын
  • Thank you, You made some good points

    @bobbrady3966@bobbrady39665 жыл бұрын
  • Now I feel like I'm being rude if I'm scrolling through the comments while Antonio talks in his video. :p

    @divyavandal8783@divyavandal87837 жыл бұрын
  • No "dead fish" hand-shakes.

    @NismoSupra@NismoSupra7 жыл бұрын
  • I very much enjoy watching your videos, I have not had a dad like figure to teach me these things. It is good to watch this to help me be a better person. Thanks!

    @flavourtasters@flavourtasters5 жыл бұрын
  • Some great advice for life ! .Thanks I enjoyed watching your video

    @alanhudson4202@alanhudson42027 жыл бұрын
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